Is he being flirty or friendly.. I need some advice, easy ten points.. please help!!!!?

Ok, so I like a boy who's two years older then me.. but we're on the same sports team.. He got my phone number and we've texted quite a bit.. A few days ago we had a convo that went like this...


HIM; so what are you doin tonight?


ME: Ahh prolly nothing, like always.. :)


HIM; that's koo.. i gotta date.


ME: your mother doesn't count! haha. jk, who's it with?


HIM; i was just kidding.. i don't have a date. i haven't had a girlfriend in a year.


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I don't know why he'd joke around about dating.. He also gives me hugs, talks to me a lot, and friday he kept tickling my feet.. last night we talked for 5 hours straight, and he kept saying i was making him laugh.. I don't know though, because he's two years older so this may be normal for him.. Do you think he's being friendly or flirting?





He's pretty shy... just to let y'all know.. and he doesn't treat any other girl like that, that I've seen.. Any advice on how make this relationship grow would be great, too! Thanks so much!!!!





Also did i handle it ok when we were talking about his ';date';?Is he being flirty or friendly.. I need some advice, easy ten points.. please help!!!!?
It sounds like you guys have got a good thing going on. =]





Two years isn't that much of an age difference, and if you talked for five hours that really means something.





I'd say he definitely digs you.


And yea, you handled it well. Joking around is good.Is he being flirty or friendly.. I need some advice, easy ten points.. please help!!!!?
he probably did htat to try to see what your response was goign to be like if it was oh thats cool.... then he wouldnt think your jealous if you said oh really who is it, i went on a date last week with this guy he was so cool and fun,then he would probably say something liek oh thats cool...i was kidding ,hahah
he's being flirty! good for you!


and ya, you handled the texting thing fine, making a guy laugh is always good :) but be careful, since he's 2 years older


good luck!





if you guys could help me out that would be great


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aww! that was cute. yes, you handled it well. pretending like you dont care is always the right thing to do. and he said that to see if you would inquire...he told you he hasnt had a gf in a year because he wants to let you know that hes available! hes totally flirting.
He likes you!





Oh that's so cool and cute.





Okay, you handled it well, and he totally wants to go out with you but doesn't know how to ask. Looks like you should ask him out to catch a movie one day. It takes guts, but you totally can do this!
Aw hes being flirty.


Just keep doing things in this way


Keep acting like yourself.


Don't think about changing :]
Sounds flirty, and ya I think your response to his date was funny.
Aww, sounds like he likes you :) Yep you handled it fine
just ask him out already.
i unno i woudl wait a bit but to me it sounds like palss
FLIRTY!!!!


And, yes, I like the way you handled the date conversation. It was very funny. I take it that you didn't say anything after the last thing he said. That was probably a good thing too. You don't want to overdo joking about his feelings.





So, he's a shy guy, right? Well, my advice is that you just wait and see what happens. He really seems to like you, but if he's uncomfortable with his feelings, then he is not likely to say anything until he decides that he really likes you.





Now, if you want to ask him out, go ahead. But, don't put him on spot too much, because that would probably embarrass him. Just, ask him if he likes you, and if he says that he does, proceed from there. Or, ask him on a date, and see what he says.





Relationships are touchy subjects because you really have to know the people involved rather well before making outside judgments. Yet, you two remind me of myself and this guy I used to know.





If you don't want to ask him out, get to know him better. Be his best friend. He may eventually come around. But, in the meantime, you have time to work up your courage (the worse thing he can say is no). If you don't like him, and him liking you makes you uncomfortable, then tell him so. Don't hurt his feeling, though, because that would really damage your friendship.





Keep in mind that guys have as sensitive of feelings as we do. :D





Best of luck!
Well, it sounds like he does like you but at the same time he is just trying to be friendly! Don't ask him because you don't want to sound to pushy about it but then again if you were to ask him you could say ';hey, since we are pretty good friends, will you tell me who you like? You don't have to answer if you don't want to.'; And you don't have to ask him who he likes but if you want to you can. If he tickles you then he is probably flirting and if you talk to him for hours on the phone, then he probably does like you. Hope I helped and good luck!