I am inlove with this guy who is supportive in all ways and makes me feel happy all the times. We both varsity students and this guy loved me before I even had a child with my ex. My problem is we both coming from disadvantaged families and luckily I have a bursary that pays for my fees and buys me food, so sometimes I use to buy him stuff such as food to help him out when he does not have. So my friends tend to think that I am stupid and that he is the only one responsible for buying me stuff instead of me buying him. They tend to always judje him and this is not the matter of me being stupid but trying to show that I care as he also does that if I don' have money. So I don understand my friends' responses to this. Can some one tell whether it is jealousy or just friendly advices?Is it jealous or friendly advices???
You and your guy are there for each in the time of need. He is not taking advantage of you because he helps you out too. He knows how to give not just take. Your friends are jealous don't listen to them.Is it jealous or friendly advices???
I think it could be a little of both. Your friends wont want you to be taken advantage of and to be honest he is a grown man he should be providing for himself. You get that bursery to support you and your child not him. Once in a while is ok but all the time is not, he should buy you things in return once in a while as well. Your friends could also be slightly jealous that you are in a caring relationship and they are not but most of all they will more than likely have your best interests at heart.x.
hey my name is josh im 19 and i think the world needs more of u kind of girls ur the reason he is still alive and u need to tell ur friends its ur life not theres or get new friends there is no such thing as loving too much i would love to be ur friend and one day he will repay u maybe not with money but with love and u will be very happy. keep up the good work and dont listen to ur friends they are jelous ur not suplying them wit money and food all the time. ps. your a really nice chick and you are going to be fine every ting will work out.
jealousy! that guy did good for you and in return u just wanted to do good things for him also. u love him and your friend should not care about what your doing for ur guy! your friend cant give the love,happiness, and the generous acts of the guy for you so dont let your friend puzzled you of what you are doing!
some of your friends may be jealous. but about buying him stuff make sure your baby is first. that could be their concern. if they are always judging him without reason you might want to have a real serious talk on how its your life.
jealousy
I guess it's both.
this is pure jealousy!!! i think but maybe they dont see the good you get out of him. either way they need to mind thier business! if you feel you and he support each other then so be it. becasue even if he isnt you would have to make the choice to do something about it no one can tell you what to do to make you happy!
so many people in this world dont like to see others happy! misery loves company! do your friends have men to worry about thats worth anything? probably not!
im in my 30's and just learning you cant trust anybody these days!
It's friendly advice. Your friends are just looking out for you. They don't want to see you get used. A man needs to be able to get on his own feet. Both of you are in the same situation so how are you helping him when he can't help you? If you want to help him so much, you should help to find him a job. Give a man a fish and he eats for a day.....
Thursday, August 19, 2010
(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
I think he's just being nice....(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
HELL YEAH
hes more than
interested he likes you .you need to see that. bye bye beautful i dont know any of my friends that say it when there just friend i think he might marrie you
i quote he told me his futre plans
ur in those plans
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
I think he's just being nice....(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
HELL YEAH
hes more than
interested he likes you .you need to see that. bye bye beautful i dont know any of my friends that say it when there just friend i think he might marrie you
i quote he told me his futre plans
ur in those plans
Can anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
Me and my boyfriend are planning to go to orlando. from october 24 to the 26. Basically two nights.Preferably close to universal studios/horror nights? So we're planning to take our doggy Doby. She's a small dog. About 13 poundsCan anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
There are quite a few of them.
Comfort Inn North
(407) 629-4000
830 Lee Rd, Orlando, FL
******************
Motel 6
(407) 647-1444
5300 Adanson St, Orlando, FL
**********************
Howard Johnson
(407) 351-2900
6603 International Dr, Orlando, FL
************
Days Inn
(407) 351-3800
5827 Caravan Ct, Orlando, FL
****************
Pet Friendly Hotels in Florida Welcome to Florida Pet Friendly hotels! A free directory of the most accurate, up to date information available for pet friendly hotels and accommodations in Florida. We check our pet policies regularly but recommend you verify with the hotel after booking.
Click the lin below and it will take you to the hotels below . Kissimmee is probably where you want to look if you're going to be in the amusement parks area.
http://www.pet-friendly-hotels.net/pet-f鈥?/a>
Kissimmee Amerisuites Orlando Lake Buena Vista
Kissimmee Best Western Maingate East
Kissimmee Country Inn %26amp; Suites Maingate Calypso Cay
Kissimmee East Gate Inn
Kissimmee Families First Vacation Homes
Kissimmee Grand Palms
Kissimmee Holiday Inn Nikki Bird
Kissimmee Howard Johnson Enchantedland Resort
Kissimmee Howard Johnson Maingate Resort West
Kissimmee La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Maingate
Kissimmee Lake Marion Resort Community
Kissimmee Masters Inn Disney's Maingate
Kissimmee Masters Inn Orlando Kissimmee
Kissimmee Mouse Pads Orlando Vacation Ren
Kissimmee Orlando-Days Inn Maingate East
Kissimmee Palm Suites Lakeside
Kissimmee Park Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Maingate East
Kissimmee Quality Inn Kissimmee
Kissimmee Quality Suites Maingate East
Kissimmee Ramada Inn Resort Eastgate
Kissimmee Red Roof Inn Kissimmee
Kissimmee Reedy Creek Inn
Kissimmee Renaissance Worldgate Hotel
Kissimmee Rodeway Inn Maingate
Kissimmee Seralago Hotel %26amp; Suites
Kissimmee The Palms Hotel and Villas
Kissimmee Travelodge Kissimme Heritage Park
Kissimmee Travelodge Maingate East
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Airport
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Airport West
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Universal
Orlando Baymont Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando South
Orlando Baymont Inn and Suites Orlando
Orlando Baymont Inn and Suites Orlando
Orlando Buena Vista Suites
Orlando Comfort Inn Universal Studios Area
Orlando Comfort Suites Orlando
Orlando Courtyard by Marriott Orlando Airport
Orlando Crestwood Suites Disney Orlando
Orlando Crestwood Suites Orlando UCF
Orlando Days Inn at Maingate of Universal Orlando
Orlando Days Inn International Drive North
Orlando Days Inn North of Universal Studios
Orlando Doubletree Orlando Universal
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Conv Ctr
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Orlando
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Orlando-Maitland
Orlando Hard Rock Hotel
Orlando Hawthorn Suites Orlando Airport
Orlando Holiday Inn Express Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Holiday Inn Express Suites Airport
Orlando Holiday Inn Hotel %26amp; Suites Universal Studios
Orlando Holiday Inn International Drive Resort
Orlando Holiday Inn Sunspree Resort Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Homestead Suites Orlando South
Orlando Howard Johnson International Drive Orlando
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Airport North
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Convention Center
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando UCF
Orlando La Quinta Inn Orlando/WinterPark
Orlando La Quinta International Drive
Orlando La Quinta Orlando Airport West
Orlando La Quinta Universal Studios
Orlando Masters Inn Orlando International Drive
Orlando Orlando Centroplex Travelodge
Orlando Park Inn Orlando Airport West
Orlando Portofino Bay Resort
Orlando Quality Inn at International Drive
Orlando Quality Inn Plaza
Orlando Red Horse Inn
Orlando Red Roof Inn Orlando Convention Center
Orlando Residence Inn by Marriott Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando Convention Center
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando International Drive
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando Sea World
Orlando Rodeway Inn International
Orlando Royal Pacific Resort
Orlando Sheraton Safari Hotel Orlando
Orlando Sheraton Suites Orlando Airport
Orlando Sheraton World
Orlando Studioplus Orlando Conv Center
Orlando Travelodge Orlando International Drive/Universal
Orlando Villager Premier Hotel Universal Studio
Orlando Westin Grand Bohemian
Orlando Wyndham International Drive Resort
Here are pet friendly hotels/motels in the Orlando area, too.
http://www.1clickpethotels.com/Florida/F鈥?/a>
Hotels with K have fully equipped stovetop kitchens
Baymont Inn %26amp; Suites-South Orlando none 50 lb max
Best Western Orlando-West $5 per day dogs only
Comfort Inn-UniversaCan anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
Search here for hotels and I believe you can find out if they accept pets as well:
http://www.hotelscombined.com?a_aid=781b鈥?/a>
we have always stayed at a redroof inn they are good about letting your pets stay there
There are quite a few of them.
Comfort Inn North
(407) 629-4000
830 Lee Rd, Orlando, FL
******************
Motel 6
(407) 647-1444
5300 Adanson St, Orlando, FL
**********************
Howard Johnson
(407) 351-2900
6603 International Dr, Orlando, FL
************
Days Inn
(407) 351-3800
5827 Caravan Ct, Orlando, FL
****************
Pet Friendly Hotels in Florida Welcome to Florida Pet Friendly hotels! A free directory of the most accurate, up to date information available for pet friendly hotels and accommodations in Florida. We check our pet policies regularly but recommend you verify with the hotel after booking.
Click the lin below and it will take you to the hotels below . Kissimmee is probably where you want to look if you're going to be in the amusement parks area.
http://www.pet-friendly-hotels.net/pet-f鈥?/a>
Kissimmee Amerisuites Orlando Lake Buena Vista
Kissimmee Best Western Maingate East
Kissimmee Country Inn %26amp; Suites Maingate Calypso Cay
Kissimmee East Gate Inn
Kissimmee Families First Vacation Homes
Kissimmee Grand Palms
Kissimmee Holiday Inn Nikki Bird
Kissimmee Howard Johnson Enchantedland Resort
Kissimmee Howard Johnson Maingate Resort West
Kissimmee La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Maingate
Kissimmee Lake Marion Resort Community
Kissimmee Masters Inn Disney's Maingate
Kissimmee Masters Inn Orlando Kissimmee
Kissimmee Mouse Pads Orlando Vacation Ren
Kissimmee Orlando-Days Inn Maingate East
Kissimmee Palm Suites Lakeside
Kissimmee Park Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Maingate East
Kissimmee Quality Inn Kissimmee
Kissimmee Quality Suites Maingate East
Kissimmee Ramada Inn Resort Eastgate
Kissimmee Red Roof Inn Kissimmee
Kissimmee Reedy Creek Inn
Kissimmee Renaissance Worldgate Hotel
Kissimmee Rodeway Inn Maingate
Kissimmee Seralago Hotel %26amp; Suites
Kissimmee The Palms Hotel and Villas
Kissimmee Travelodge Kissimme Heritage Park
Kissimmee Travelodge Maingate East
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Airport
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Airport West
Orlando Amerisuites Orlando Universal
Orlando Baymont Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando South
Orlando Baymont Inn and Suites Orlando
Orlando Baymont Inn and Suites Orlando
Orlando Buena Vista Suites
Orlando Comfort Inn Universal Studios Area
Orlando Comfort Suites Orlando
Orlando Courtyard by Marriott Orlando Airport
Orlando Crestwood Suites Disney Orlando
Orlando Crestwood Suites Orlando UCF
Orlando Days Inn at Maingate of Universal Orlando
Orlando Days Inn International Drive North
Orlando Days Inn North of Universal Studios
Orlando Doubletree Orlando Universal
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Conv Ctr
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Orlando
Orlando Extended Stay Deluxe Orlando-Maitland
Orlando Hard Rock Hotel
Orlando Hawthorn Suites Orlando Airport
Orlando Holiday Inn Express Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Holiday Inn Express Suites Airport
Orlando Holiday Inn Hotel %26amp; Suites Universal Studios
Orlando Holiday Inn International Drive Resort
Orlando Holiday Inn Sunspree Resort Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Homestead Suites Orlando South
Orlando Howard Johnson International Drive Orlando
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando Airport North
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Convention Center
Orlando La Quinta Inn %26amp; Suites Orlando UCF
Orlando La Quinta Inn Orlando/WinterPark
Orlando La Quinta International Drive
Orlando La Quinta Orlando Airport West
Orlando La Quinta Universal Studios
Orlando Masters Inn Orlando International Drive
Orlando Orlando Centroplex Travelodge
Orlando Park Inn Orlando Airport West
Orlando Portofino Bay Resort
Orlando Quality Inn at International Drive
Orlando Quality Inn Plaza
Orlando Red Horse Inn
Orlando Red Roof Inn Orlando Convention Center
Orlando Residence Inn by Marriott Lake Buena Vista
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando Convention Center
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando International Drive
Orlando Residence Inn Orlando Sea World
Orlando Rodeway Inn International
Orlando Royal Pacific Resort
Orlando Sheraton Safari Hotel Orlando
Orlando Sheraton Suites Orlando Airport
Orlando Sheraton World
Orlando Studioplus Orlando Conv Center
Orlando Travelodge Orlando International Drive/Universal
Orlando Villager Premier Hotel Universal Studio
Orlando Westin Grand Bohemian
Orlando Wyndham International Drive Resort
Here are pet friendly hotels/motels in the Orlando area, too.
http://www.1clickpethotels.com/Florida/F鈥?/a>
Hotels with K have fully equipped stovetop kitchens
Baymont Inn %26amp; Suites-South Orlando none 50 lb max
Best Western Orlando-West $5 per day dogs only
Comfort Inn-UniversaCan anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
Search here for hotels and I believe you can find out if they accept pets as well:
http://www.hotelscombined.com?a_aid=781b鈥?/a>
we have always stayed at a redroof inn they are good about letting your pets stay there
(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
this is some possibilities
1) he likes you or
2)he love you or
3) he is putting you as backup or
4)he is trying with other girls but he cant forget you.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
How old is he?
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
this is some possibilities
1) he likes you or
2)he love you or
3) he is putting you as backup or
4)he is trying with other girls but he cant forget you.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
How old is he?
Friendly advices plz?
my boyfriend always wants me to come over his place after work and prefers spending time ';just me'; alone and without my daughter (even overnyt)... always tells me to stop-by / visit him... (40mins) but why cnt be come over to me??? i try to see him as much as i can... after work, weekends, and going there for a visit along with my daughter, but to tell me ';let just spend alone and sleep over. but he only sees me once every 2 weeks. so twice in a month.. he says he is too busy / sleepy / or work comes up... is he just using me for his comfort %26amp; needs?Friendly advices plz?
can't you see that he doesnt want anything to do with your daughter nor your life. he just wants you to fulfill his physical needs.
for the love of your daughter, find someone who doesnn't only love you but adores your daughter as well....
good luck....Friendly advices plz?
yes i think he is
Think you answered your own question - in the last line !
If you are looking for a genuine, long term relationship, it obviously has to be with someone who can love and accept your daughter - this guy wants her out of the way !
Tell him your daughter is more important to you than his sexual needs, and move on ; you, and ESPECIALLY your daughter, deserve better !
Well...i think you have to re-consider whether you really love him, weight between him and your daughter, at the same time does he love you? does he ever do something showing he care about you and your daughter or plan for you future? or he just want you to satisfy him in whatever sense...THINK!
yeah i think soo.. he's just using you. think he's a user person.. oops dont angry with me, am just telling of my comments.
can't you see that he doesnt want anything to do with your daughter nor your life. he just wants you to fulfill his physical needs.
for the love of your daughter, find someone who doesnn't only love you but adores your daughter as well....
good luck....Friendly advices plz?
yes i think he is
Think you answered your own question - in the last line !
If you are looking for a genuine, long term relationship, it obviously has to be with someone who can love and accept your daughter - this guy wants her out of the way !
Tell him your daughter is more important to you than his sexual needs, and move on ; you, and ESPECIALLY your daughter, deserve better !
Well...i think you have to re-consider whether you really love him, weight between him and your daughter, at the same time does he love you? does he ever do something showing he care about you and your daughter or plan for you future? or he just want you to satisfy him in whatever sense...THINK!
yeah i think soo.. he's just using you. think he's a user person.. oops dont angry with me, am just telling of my comments.
Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
My friend and i want to introduce her dog who goes up to about your waist to my sisters puppy who is a shih tzu. he is really friendly but i dont know if my sisters dog is. i would really like some advice because i really want the puppy to socialize and i want to see a really big dog play with a little dog *teehee*Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
here is some information on how to properly do dog introductions. good luck.
http://www.ddfl.org/behavior/dog-intros.鈥?/a>
http://www.animalbehaviorassociates.com/鈥?/a>Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
take it slowly and get them together on a leash and if they don't do good together pull them back and try again another time. if they do do good well ........................good luck
here is some information on how to properly do dog introductions. good luck.
http://www.ddfl.org/behavior/dog-intros.鈥?/a>
http://www.animalbehaviorassociates.com/鈥?/a>Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
take it slowly and get them together on a leash and if they don't do good together pull them back and try again another time. if they do do good well ........................good luck
Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
Right now, if I am in the pasture, and I stand still, they will slowly walk up to me, and sniff me, but if I try to walk to them, or reach out to pet them, they walk away.
Any ideas on how to get them to let me walk up to them and pet them?Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
Oboy. donkeys. Love donkeys. They're the equine equivilant of cats. If they want to do something, they will, if they don't , well, they won't.
Patience is a virtue, and it this case the only thing that works.
Take treats with you. Stand still and talk to them. They will see somebody's getting treats and come. Make sure there's treats and scratches in all the right places when they come to you.
After a week, stand a little closer. Reward whoever comes first. Next week, little closer. They're testing you just as you are deciding what to do with them, too.
Give them time. They'll figure you out and find out you only want good things. Then they'll follow you everywhere.Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
talk to them softly dont try totouch them then either sit on the fence or the grass and ignore them take this slowly and they will come round also a treat now and then works wonders
Donkyes are very dangerous,be careful around them.
They kill allot of people yearly.
Any ideas on how to get them to let me walk up to them and pet them?Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
Oboy. donkeys. Love donkeys. They're the equine equivilant of cats. If they want to do something, they will, if they don't , well, they won't.
Patience is a virtue, and it this case the only thing that works.
Take treats with you. Stand still and talk to them. They will see somebody's getting treats and come. Make sure there's treats and scratches in all the right places when they come to you.
After a week, stand a little closer. Reward whoever comes first. Next week, little closer. They're testing you just as you are deciding what to do with them, too.
Give them time. They'll figure you out and find out you only want good things. Then they'll follow you everywhere.Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
talk to them softly dont try totouch them then either sit on the fence or the grass and ignore them take this slowly and they will come round also a treat now and then works wonders
Donkyes are very dangerous,be careful around them.
They kill allot of people yearly.
I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
breeds and the most popular breeds happen to also possess traits I know I cannot handle:
1)Goldens/Labs are AWESOME, but require way, way more exercise than I am able to give. 2)Powerful, larger dogs tend to be extremely good with kids but do require, from what I've read, experienced, confident owners who can harness their strength and smarts and turn out a well-trained, happy dog. I am NOT a dominant personality type and I will not be able to show enough dominance to properly train such a dog. I need a happy-go-lucky dog that is happily submissive %26amp; will GLADLY accept other dogs/ppl visiting. My kids are quite gentle with dogs (grew up around grandma's maltese%26amp;chihuahua) and they are NOT AT ALL physically rambunctious. But our house is noisy-very high ceilings+3 kids+tv's..etc. My mildy-autistic son flaps his hands-A LOT. Might all this drive a sensitive breed crazy? Finally, I am a stay-at-home-mom, so I'll always be w/our dog. Thanks so much for any advice.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
You must check into getting a shitzu. They are terriffic. Happy go lucky,..gental,..snorts,...snores,...ver鈥?affectionate and loves to play games. very energetic but will tire themselves out by running in circles. They are just awesome. I love mine,...his name is fuzzbug.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
cocker spaniels are the perfect dog they are so loving and also are good with kids they are loyal and do not aquire a lot of attention when you think of cocker spaniel you think of lady with lots of hair my dogs do not have lots of hair and are full blood cockers i highly recommend them for you they are also very smart and are very patient
choose a pomeranian. lovely dogs. i have one of my own. they seem a little perky when the noise level's too high though, so i dont know ... because you said your house his noisey... i guess it depends how noisey it is. if its constantly noisey i guess it can get used to it, but if its just sudden things, that might frighten it
Female huskies aren't too big, but tend to be dominant dogs so you might not like that. Beagles are very friendly but are very active. I think a golden retreiver would be great for you. Perhaps a cocker spaniel? Here, try this site, it might help you find a good match.
http://www.selectsmart.com/DOG/
hello,
A schnauzer is the perfect dog they come in 3 sizes and 3 colours i have a salt and pepper mini!
I think that the schnauzer is a dog that matches your description. They are about $1000-$1500 each. They are a very friendly dog and LOVE kids.
Hope i helped!
If your kids are used to your grandmother's small dogs, then why not check into some of the toy breeds?
Any breed can be tolerant of children if properly trained and socialized around them. I know of someone who had Chinese Cresteds with her autistic children.
We have Yorkies and English Bulldogs...........both are awesome with our four year old daughter!
As both a breeder and lover of dogs, my personal choice is the Miniature Pincher or Min-Pin for short.
While a small breed they have a lot of energy and when raised with children and other pets they are very adaptive. They can be a bit clingy to one person but they are very social dogs as well.
I also recommend them for people with allergies as they seem to be one of the few breeds that do not cause a lot of allergy suffering.
I know a lady that has a child with severe autism that says the Min-Pin she bought from me is a blessing in that the dog is very careful and watchful around her daughter and also very vocal when the daughter is about to get in trouble.
On the whole I feel that Min-Pins are the best small dog going and perhaps the best all around dog to have.
I also should mention that the American Mutt makes a good dog for just about anybody.
Please feel free to contact me if you have any other questions.
Pit bulls [ the nanny dogs ] are great family dogs.
I've been at a dog rescue with a majority of them
being Pit bulls and not once out of the 3 years
has a Pit bull bit me. Especially when you get
them as puppies and train them since then they
will become very obedient, loving dogs. Also,
their loyalty to its owner is outstanding, this breed
of dog is known for always obeying. But you always
hear about the bad stories on the new and how they
attack people, but they dont bother telling you the REAL
reason why the dog attacked [usually because of territory
or them being harrassed]. I personally love the breed and
many other people do too. So give them a chance if you'd
really want a dog to be fun, caring, and trust worthy.
If you don't mind a small breed, Havanese are VERY good with kids, tolerant, outgoing and, for a toy breed, sturdy!
They don't need lots of excersize, a romp with the kids or a toy thrown up and down the hallway or a leisurely walk is just fine with them. They are not snappy or clingy, they are really wonderfull little dogs, and cute too!
Mine are thriving in a houseful of teenagers, Afghan hounds, loud husbands, drum sets and cats that are bigger than they are! If you would like more info you can contact me from my profile.
A Labrador is still your best bet.
You will have to be the ';dominant'; pack leader no matter what dog you get. They need training, supervision and exercise.
You will need to teach your dog basic obedience or have someone teach him for you. Maybe you could hire a dog walker if you can't do more than 1 hour a day?
We have 2 Labs. From the time they were pups we played with them inside and did potty breaks outside with about 30 minutes of actual playtime. They are 95 and 69 lbs each. Both are well behaved around other people and animals. They do like trying to jump up and lick if you don't stop them. Otherwise, they are perfectly happy. You've got kids and your home all the time so you can still play with him inside. Not all dogs have to have outside play. For outside play with a Lab I'd suggest a water hose, frisbee, ball or small pool. That could be your hour of playtime.
STAY AWAY FROM SMALL TOY BREEDS THEY ARE MORE AGGRESSIVE! GO TO PETFINDER.COM and HeLp A DoG In NeEd!Go to petfinder.com and search there! type in the breed age and type of animal you want and where you live! SAVE A DOG IN NEED! ITS EASY WITH PETFINDER! THEY FIND A DOG IN NEED CLOSEST TO WHERE YOU LIVE! THEY GIVE DETAILS AND MANY TIMES HAVE SOGS THAT ARE GREAT WITH KIDS! if you continue to buy dogs from breeders then they will force the momma and daddy dogs to make more and more and more puppies until the mother dog can only have one at a time and then what happens to the mother? Well lets see she either gets dumped off on the side of a road left to starve orrr they will put her up for adoption,,,,,I HATE DOG BREEDERS!
While I don't know of any particular dog that would be good around children with autism, growing up we had a English Springer Spaniel who was so mild mannered and loving that she would even let the cats curl up and sleep with her. Never once did I ever witness her being aggressive except in once incident where I was about 9 or so a man claiming to be the ';meter reader'; came up to me in the front yard and she went into a growling and teeth barring frenzy. It is our familys belief that she sensed something and would have fought tooth and nail to protect me.. I would recommend her breed to anyone with kids... however they do tend to have longer hair and need to be groomed. Good Luck!
have you ever thought about an English or an Olde English bulldog. Great with kids, not hyper, couch potatoes, low exercise. these guys don't bounce off the wall they don't like jogging, they love kids and all pets. They are very eager to please. And they will keep you laughing with their comical faces and personalities. Research them a little you I think you will love what you see.
I would think hard about a mutt :)
We have what we believe to be a chow/lab mix (aka mutt) and he is the best natured dog you could ever ask for! A two year old could drag him around the house all day by his tail and he would be in heaven just to have a buddy lol
Here is an example of the things he will tolerate (he is the brown one on the bottom lol)
http://www.sugarloot.com/entry/100769686鈥?/a>
(when we took him to the vet as a puppy the vet told me he is ';Brown Dog'; lol)
1)Goldens/Labs are AWESOME, but require way, way more exercise than I am able to give. 2)Powerful, larger dogs tend to be extremely good with kids but do require, from what I've read, experienced, confident owners who can harness their strength and smarts and turn out a well-trained, happy dog. I am NOT a dominant personality type and I will not be able to show enough dominance to properly train such a dog. I need a happy-go-lucky dog that is happily submissive %26amp; will GLADLY accept other dogs/ppl visiting. My kids are quite gentle with dogs (grew up around grandma's maltese%26amp;chihuahua) and they are NOT AT ALL physically rambunctious. But our house is noisy-very high ceilings+3 kids+tv's..etc. My mildy-autistic son flaps his hands-A LOT. Might all this drive a sensitive breed crazy? Finally, I am a stay-at-home-mom, so I'll always be w/our dog. Thanks so much for any advice.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
You must check into getting a shitzu. They are terriffic. Happy go lucky,..gental,..snorts,...snores,...ver鈥?affectionate and loves to play games. very energetic but will tire themselves out by running in circles. They are just awesome. I love mine,...his name is fuzzbug.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
cocker spaniels are the perfect dog they are so loving and also are good with kids they are loyal and do not aquire a lot of attention when you think of cocker spaniel you think of lady with lots of hair my dogs do not have lots of hair and are full blood cockers i highly recommend them for you they are also very smart and are very patient
choose a pomeranian. lovely dogs. i have one of my own. they seem a little perky when the noise level's too high though, so i dont know ... because you said your house his noisey... i guess it depends how noisey it is. if its constantly noisey i guess it can get used to it, but if its just sudden things, that might frighten it
Female huskies aren't too big, but tend to be dominant dogs so you might not like that. Beagles are very friendly but are very active. I think a golden retreiver would be great for you. Perhaps a cocker spaniel? Here, try this site, it might help you find a good match.
http://www.selectsmart.com/DOG/
hello,
A schnauzer is the perfect dog they come in 3 sizes and 3 colours i have a salt and pepper mini!
I think that the schnauzer is a dog that matches your description. They are about $1000-$1500 each. They are a very friendly dog and LOVE kids.
Hope i helped!
If your kids are used to your grandmother's small dogs, then why not check into some of the toy breeds?
Any breed can be tolerant of children if properly trained and socialized around them. I know of someone who had Chinese Cresteds with her autistic children.
We have Yorkies and English Bulldogs...........both are awesome with our four year old daughter!
As both a breeder and lover of dogs, my personal choice is the Miniature Pincher or Min-Pin for short.
While a small breed they have a lot of energy and when raised with children and other pets they are very adaptive. They can be a bit clingy to one person but they are very social dogs as well.
I also recommend them for people with allergies as they seem to be one of the few breeds that do not cause a lot of allergy suffering.
I know a lady that has a child with severe autism that says the Min-Pin she bought from me is a blessing in that the dog is very careful and watchful around her daughter and also very vocal when the daughter is about to get in trouble.
On the whole I feel that Min-Pins are the best small dog going and perhaps the best all around dog to have.
I also should mention that the American Mutt makes a good dog for just about anybody.
Please feel free to contact me if you have any other questions.
Pit bulls [ the nanny dogs ] are great family dogs.
I've been at a dog rescue with a majority of them
being Pit bulls and not once out of the 3 years
has a Pit bull bit me. Especially when you get
them as puppies and train them since then they
will become very obedient, loving dogs. Also,
their loyalty to its owner is outstanding, this breed
of dog is known for always obeying. But you always
hear about the bad stories on the new and how they
attack people, but they dont bother telling you the REAL
reason why the dog attacked [usually because of territory
or them being harrassed]. I personally love the breed and
many other people do too. So give them a chance if you'd
really want a dog to be fun, caring, and trust worthy.
If you don't mind a small breed, Havanese are VERY good with kids, tolerant, outgoing and, for a toy breed, sturdy!
They don't need lots of excersize, a romp with the kids or a toy thrown up and down the hallway or a leisurely walk is just fine with them. They are not snappy or clingy, they are really wonderfull little dogs, and cute too!
Mine are thriving in a houseful of teenagers, Afghan hounds, loud husbands, drum sets and cats that are bigger than they are! If you would like more info you can contact me from my profile.
A Labrador is still your best bet.
You will have to be the ';dominant'; pack leader no matter what dog you get. They need training, supervision and exercise.
You will need to teach your dog basic obedience or have someone teach him for you. Maybe you could hire a dog walker if you can't do more than 1 hour a day?
We have 2 Labs. From the time they were pups we played with them inside and did potty breaks outside with about 30 minutes of actual playtime. They are 95 and 69 lbs each. Both are well behaved around other people and animals. They do like trying to jump up and lick if you don't stop them. Otherwise, they are perfectly happy. You've got kids and your home all the time so you can still play with him inside. Not all dogs have to have outside play. For outside play with a Lab I'd suggest a water hose, frisbee, ball or small pool. That could be your hour of playtime.
STAY AWAY FROM SMALL TOY BREEDS THEY ARE MORE AGGRESSIVE! GO TO PETFINDER.COM and HeLp A DoG In NeEd!Go to petfinder.com and search there! type in the breed age and type of animal you want and where you live! SAVE A DOG IN NEED! ITS EASY WITH PETFINDER! THEY FIND A DOG IN NEED CLOSEST TO WHERE YOU LIVE! THEY GIVE DETAILS AND MANY TIMES HAVE SOGS THAT ARE GREAT WITH KIDS! if you continue to buy dogs from breeders then they will force the momma and daddy dogs to make more and more and more puppies until the mother dog can only have one at a time and then what happens to the mother? Well lets see she either gets dumped off on the side of a road left to starve orrr they will put her up for adoption,,,,,I HATE DOG BREEDERS!
While I don't know of any particular dog that would be good around children with autism, growing up we had a English Springer Spaniel who was so mild mannered and loving that she would even let the cats curl up and sleep with her. Never once did I ever witness her being aggressive except in once incident where I was about 9 or so a man claiming to be the ';meter reader'; came up to me in the front yard and she went into a growling and teeth barring frenzy. It is our familys belief that she sensed something and would have fought tooth and nail to protect me.. I would recommend her breed to anyone with kids... however they do tend to have longer hair and need to be groomed. Good Luck!
have you ever thought about an English or an Olde English bulldog. Great with kids, not hyper, couch potatoes, low exercise. these guys don't bounce off the wall they don't like jogging, they love kids and all pets. They are very eager to please. And they will keep you laughing with their comical faces and personalities. Research them a little you I think you will love what you see.
I would think hard about a mutt :)
We have what we believe to be a chow/lab mix (aka mutt) and he is the best natured dog you could ever ask for! A two year old could drag him around the house all day by his tail and he would be in heaven just to have a buddy lol
Here is an example of the things he will tolerate (he is the brown one on the bottom lol)
http://www.sugarloot.com/entry/100769686鈥?/a>
(when we took him to the vet as a puppy the vet told me he is ';Brown Dog'; lol)
(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
YES, he's definitely interested. Sound's nice. Needs some encouragement from you. Only worrying thing is that he doesn't seem to be his own master. Men who tell mummy what she wants to hear, or even worse, do what mummy wants are usually a waste of time.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
not interested I would say, guys make it very clear if they areliquid eyeshadow beauty products
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
YES, he's definitely interested. Sound's nice. Needs some encouragement from you. Only worrying thing is that he doesn't seem to be his own master. Men who tell mummy what she wants to hear, or even worse, do what mummy wants are usually a waste of time.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
not interested I would say, guys make it very clear if they are
I need some friendly advice.?
I've been working on a story, just with some extra time i've had.
This is what i have so far:
The wind blew softly against the trees, which were full of dew and drops of rain from the night.
On top of the great canopy sat a large monkey, with dark brown fur and white markings on his mane.
His name was Marfoon.
He was the alpha male of the clan of monkeys that lived in this forest.
He grunted quietly to himself as he inspected his territory, for any off signs.
Everything was clear so far.
He climbed off of the branch on which he sat upon and made his way to the forest floor where he met up with the two, wide-awake, tumbly twins.
Meko and Zeke.
After a quick grunt and a show of teeth did the twins stop their foolish play and let Marfoon make his way through.
He soon stopped before a large boulder and bent down, lapping up some water from a small puddle.
Its about a clan of macaque monkeys.
And if you think i could do some revising, i would love to get some opinion.
Thanks very much.
I need some friendly advice.?
I think it is an interesting idea for a story - now stop asking this group for advice and find an online writing group where you can get some real advice on writing. My experience is that there are a lot of haters on YA! who like nothing better than to insult earnest efforts with nasty critiques.
Start here:
http://www.thewriterssite.com/direct_pag鈥?/a>I need some friendly advice.?
So far I think it's a really great story but maybe the monkey shouldn't be large maybe it should be small or medium sized because smaller it is the cuter but other ten that I think it's great.
This is what i have so far:
The wind blew softly against the trees, which were full of dew and drops of rain from the night.
On top of the great canopy sat a large monkey, with dark brown fur and white markings on his mane.
His name was Marfoon.
He was the alpha male of the clan of monkeys that lived in this forest.
He grunted quietly to himself as he inspected his territory, for any off signs.
Everything was clear so far.
He climbed off of the branch on which he sat upon and made his way to the forest floor where he met up with the two, wide-awake, tumbly twins.
Meko and Zeke.
After a quick grunt and a show of teeth did the twins stop their foolish play and let Marfoon make his way through.
He soon stopped before a large boulder and bent down, lapping up some water from a small puddle.
Its about a clan of macaque monkeys.
And if you think i could do some revising, i would love to get some opinion.
Thanks very much.
I need some friendly advice.?
I think it is an interesting idea for a story - now stop asking this group for advice and find an online writing group where you can get some real advice on writing. My experience is that there are a lot of haters on YA! who like nothing better than to insult earnest efforts with nasty critiques.
Start here:
http://www.thewriterssite.com/direct_pag鈥?/a>I need some friendly advice.?
So far I think it's a really great story but maybe the monkey shouldn't be large maybe it should be small or medium sized because smaller it is the cuter but other ten that I think it's great.
Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
it's pretty scary to go there.
but she is starring at me all the time ( u know that kind of a look ). plus i think she is unsatisfied in her marriage. my friend is a kind of a geek guy playing with PSP in his 40's.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
with friends like you who needs enemies. Friends don't do that . if you value your friendship, stay away from her. I f she is unsatisfied in her marriage, that is her problem. Stay out of it.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
Don't do it.
Ok I got it you are a pig right?
He isnt your friend or you wouldnt even let it cross your mind. If she is unhappy she will leave him on her own she dosent need you to complicate things. Apparently she saw something in him that attracted her and keeps her there. Maybe you have something hanging out of your nose everytime you go over there, but even if she is stareing at you that dosent give you the right to move in on his wife. Who cares if he is a geek, that is his wife, get your own.
if you love your wife, you will not betray her by sleeping with her friend...
If the women is married then there is a code. The code is she is off limits. I dont care if she looks at you with a lovers strare or not she is not yours to have. She made a commitent to her husband and she needs to stick by it.
Jerk. Selfish, stupid jerk.
And you call yourself a friend.
Please!
You and this 'geeky guy' obviously are not very good friends, or you would not even be asking such a stupid question. Sleeping with someone elses wife is called ADULTERY. Not a good thing. Don't even think about it.
Then one special programme crew will make a film about your secret relationships and will show it on TV. Would you like the consequences of such a programme about your love affairs?
I think your ';friend'; doesnt have a 'friend';... and maybe his friend is just making fantasies about his ';friends'; wife wich makes you the '; friend'; looks like a complete ';jerkoff';..... get a life and find your own wife home wrecker.. with friends like you who needs enemies.... you should be ashame of your self....oh oh shame is a felling that jerkoff just dont feel...... get away from your poor friend happy home... is not your business what is the status of their sex life.. idiot.
you need to read what all these people wrote .one thing she would stupid for doing it and another i would pitty you if he cought you.that,s not a friend dummy
You know what, those are terrible and hurtful thoughts. Not according to God or Society, but according to right versus wrong in basic human morality. Leave your friend's wife alone because whether she's making eyes at you or not, you'd be doing your friend a great injustice. Find your own woman.
2 words for you OFF LIMITS and 2 pts for me
Everyone on here is judging that you are wrong. Maybe you are but in a similar situation, half of the people here would do the ';wrong'; thing. You know the saying about glass houses. By the way, my wife left with ';my best friend'; and i was hurt at first but i realized he did me a favor. She obviously wasn't happy with me and if it were not for him we could still be going on with our life and be just as miserable as we were before. Also i should say that after a little while i realized this and now we are all friends.
dont be an asshole i had a friend do that to me in highschool id still like to rip his head off and **** down his windpipe
but she is starring at me all the time ( u know that kind of a look ). plus i think she is unsatisfied in her marriage. my friend is a kind of a geek guy playing with PSP in his 40's.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
with friends like you who needs enemies. Friends don't do that . if you value your friendship, stay away from her. I f she is unsatisfied in her marriage, that is her problem. Stay out of it.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
Don't do it.
Ok I got it you are a pig right?
He isnt your friend or you wouldnt even let it cross your mind. If she is unhappy she will leave him on her own she dosent need you to complicate things. Apparently she saw something in him that attracted her and keeps her there. Maybe you have something hanging out of your nose everytime you go over there, but even if she is stareing at you that dosent give you the right to move in on his wife. Who cares if he is a geek, that is his wife, get your own.
if you love your wife, you will not betray her by sleeping with her friend...
If the women is married then there is a code. The code is she is off limits. I dont care if she looks at you with a lovers strare or not she is not yours to have. She made a commitent to her husband and she needs to stick by it.
Jerk. Selfish, stupid jerk.
And you call yourself a friend.
Please!
You and this 'geeky guy' obviously are not very good friends, or you would not even be asking such a stupid question. Sleeping with someone elses wife is called ADULTERY. Not a good thing. Don't even think about it.
Then one special programme crew will make a film about your secret relationships and will show it on TV. Would you like the consequences of such a programme about your love affairs?
I think your ';friend'; doesnt have a 'friend';... and maybe his friend is just making fantasies about his ';friends'; wife wich makes you the '; friend'; looks like a complete ';jerkoff';..... get a life and find your own wife home wrecker.. with friends like you who needs enemies.... you should be ashame of your self....oh oh shame is a felling that jerkoff just dont feel...... get away from your poor friend happy home... is not your business what is the status of their sex life.. idiot.
you need to read what all these people wrote .one thing she would stupid for doing it and another i would pitty you if he cought you.that,s not a friend dummy
You know what, those are terrible and hurtful thoughts. Not according to God or Society, but according to right versus wrong in basic human morality. Leave your friend's wife alone because whether she's making eyes at you or not, you'd be doing your friend a great injustice. Find your own woman.
2 words for you OFF LIMITS and 2 pts for me
Everyone on here is judging that you are wrong. Maybe you are but in a similar situation, half of the people here would do the ';wrong'; thing. You know the saying about glass houses. By the way, my wife left with ';my best friend'; and i was hurt at first but i realized he did me a favor. She obviously wasn't happy with me and if it were not for him we could still be going on with our life and be just as miserable as we were before. Also i should say that after a little while i realized this and now we are all friends.
dont be an asshole i had a friend do that to me in highschool id still like to rip his head off and **** down his windpipe
(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
May be he just likes to boink on-line. Ever thought of that? There are a lot of weirdos out there. Be careful!(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
maybe he IS interested. but u should give all this some time instead of thinking sooooooooo much about him.
There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.
When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.
Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.
On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.
He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.
He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
May be he just likes to boink on-line. Ever thought of that? There are a lot of weirdos out there. Be careful!(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
maybe he IS interested. but u should give all this some time instead of thinking sooooooooo much about him.
Could anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
I think I might have a mild - to - serious problem. It's really hard to type all this and make it available to the public, so please be as kind as you can :). I'm a 14 year old boy. I've got sort of an obsession, and it's not bad as it might come across to you guys at first, but like these kids on TV and stuff between ages (generally) 6-12 I kind of like want to meet or something, I don't know maybe I just wish I had it as good as them when I was younger or what but I look up their biography and history, just stuff like that. But I do it constantly and it gets me soooooo depressed, like I just....imagine the worst feeling you've ever had, you might have not even had it yet but I don't think of anything bad, I just wish I could like meet them in person or something but it's not as simple as just a want, it's taking over me. It gets me depressed and like a very unpleasant and lonely feeling, like I'm all alone and I don't have any friends or anything, in fact I haven't been around anyone my age in a few years (very shocking I know). And every time I try to talk to anyone and the subject can be anything, I just feel so bad about myself, I really look down on myself and I feel like nobody likes me ( I try so hard not to, I even put myself way out there and I just feel worse and worse, it's been going on for a long time). It seems to come in stages, like every couple months it comes and goes. And I've never fit in, I'm 14 and my favorite channel is either USA or Food Network. I can't stand immaturity or stupidity, I can't stand war games at all, I put myself out of the way for anyone even if they are the scum of the earth, I'll still put them before myself and I think people take advantage of it. I'm very hard working. (sorry it kinda split into two questions and/or problems) but please type what you think about it, but really try to imagine yourself in my shoes, what would you type then?...thanksCould anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
Well, i don't see you weird or anything. What my eyes and heart telling me is that you're a good person no more. You don't need a doctor, it's just you need to join some activities, meet people, get involved in school group projects. When i was your age i thought it would be better being alone, and no need for some people bothering me. But that was very negative, it never helped. Only recently, i discovered instead of putting myself in a jail, its better to be out of it. Socialize, have experiences, you have to know how to treat people, and you decide how to be treated.
I always feel sorry for hungry people in some places in Africa and wish i could end hunger one day. All i can do for now, is trying to be good. Do what you want, socialize, get involved in activities, or u can visit old people, or in hospitals.
So do you cook? God bless you.Could anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
Perhaps you should seek counseling from someone at your church or a social worker or there are others and of course your parents
you need immediate help
i can't tell if you're depressed or just really hard on yourself but you need help
stop looking at people's bios and surround yourself with people that will support you no matter what
Believe me that although life is short, it's long enough so you will overcome that phase, start seeing things in a different, happier point of view and relax and enjoy much more.
Be a good person but try not to judge yourself too much. You only need to judge yourself if or when you do questionable acts, not by who you are. You'll get used to who you are
Don't think too much about that anyway. Live your life, plan your future and give it time
Also, turn off your TV once and a while and get out of the house, and try to have social interaction, because without social interaction, it's normal to feel sad or depressed.
Good luck!
I'm really sorry that you feel this way.
You should really put yourself out there, and try to make friends. If you make friends with genuinely good people, you will be so much happier. Don't get caught up with bad influencers and rule-breakers. You should think more highly of yourself, take care of your own needs.
You're craving the company of good friends, so you need to go and find them! Go to a youth centre maybe, or talk to people at your school. (but you said you haven't had any contact with your peers for years, so I wasn't sure if you go to school?)
See your doctor and I don't think it would be a bad idea to see a psycologist.
EDIT: I'm not sure how to get around the insufficient funds issue. Maybe go to or ring the doctor's surgery and tell them about your situation. Perhaps they can assist.
I'm sorry for the way you feel. Tell your parents/carers what's going on.
you need some change ,do you have a pet ? get one or a fish or bird , rearrange your room , put a lot of bright colors in your room, did you know if you look at the color yellow for 15 seconds it will put you in a better mood. hell paint your room yellow or a bright color with parents permission,go for walks during the day and and drink and eat less sugar it will make you fill better, do you know they have a free big brother big sister program they will come take you out for free once a week , check into it google it i'm sure your parents won't mind talk to them it is free and the big brothers and sisters are screened so they are not creepy, watch different stuff on t.v. you need change to help you, you are in a same old same old routine, so, get out of it , is it getting warm weather where you are , i think you need to start a small garden,start With an egg carton or something and get a dollar pack of seeds grow them in your window seal carry them out during the day when the sun is out and bring them in at night some green beans or peas are real easy to grow or squash , ..or get some zucchini 's seeds and they are real easy to grow and you can see how big of one you can grow they can get huge, google them .they are good if you slice them real thin and put some flour , salt and pepper and fry them , you should go out tommarow and start shoveling you a garden spot , you can make one for less then 5 bucks,, so dig all the dirt and shovel it up and turn it over and get out them extra grass and stuff,, get it ready and start some seeds inside, for your green beans and peas get a few sticks and some old kite string or rope and tie it from stick to stick so the plants can grow up and vine on them,im sure your parents won't mind but ask ahead of time, if you have no yard then get you a tomatoe plant in a 5 gallon bucket, if you have a window with sun comming in you may even want a house plant for your room it will help you fell better, i got one of them venus fly traps for 5 bucks at wallmart and i made a dome for it to keep it hot with a 2 litter soda bottle, so like i said you need some change,you could also start drawing or painting or find a good book to read , don't listen to country music it will depress you don't listen to rap or rock cause it may get you to wond up so try like pop music for a while,... try to watch movies that are comedys and some funny shows for now.keep your room clean, clean room will make you fell better,take baths instead of showers you will fell more relaxed. don't drink tea or soda in the evenings it will keep you up, get a hair cut or style it another way. like i said you need change,take my word on this i am 40, change your food around a bit put musterd on a sandwich in stead of ketchup,well i'm going to bed now so good luck lot's of love............and by the way if you don't respect yourself who will ? so , take care of you,you should always come first,,,,,,,, do you think those kids like to be on t.v and set in a hot studio under all them hot lights for 12 hours a day ? and even when they are sick or sad they still have to work, i'm sure they wish they had a more normal life like yours,,,, so, i love you , and you need some change, dear,,,,,,,,,
Well, I have been in your shoes before. The best thing you can do is talk to someone close to you about it, such as your parents. If not them, then the school counselor, you'll get a good feeling once you talk to them about it, and start getting help.
There are many factors which might have propelled you into the situation you are currently suffering from, Taylor. A psychologist would have to determine and examine most (if not all) of them before he or she can assess your problem.
But I am not saying that you do need to see a psychologist. You are young, and people of your age naturally have volatile mindsets that strive to attain balance.
Think. What do you think went wrong? Do you think it was your upbringing (through your parents or family)? Was it your friends or the environment you were set to grow? Do you want to release some hidden feelings? Do you feel that you want to run from something? Are you somewhat jealous of something? Or was it something else only you might know?
Search for answers within, and do not hesitate to talk them out and free yourself of the burden of keeping all the pain for yourself. You can decrease or even get rid of your obsessions if you keep on trying new things and set yourself to accomplish a goal. You can write blogs, befriend people who are similar to you, etc. Or you may just live your life as you see fit and wait for this stage to pass. I doubt you will be fixated to this stage for a long time, anyway. It shall probably pass as you get older.
But I'm afraid that the advice I am giving you is generic. The best advice you can get would come from people who know you inside-out or from a good, friendly professional who has thoroughly examined you and your background.
Remember. You are still young, very young. You will grow strong, one day.
I wish you all the best.liquid eyeshadow beauty products
Well, i don't see you weird or anything. What my eyes and heart telling me is that you're a good person no more. You don't need a doctor, it's just you need to join some activities, meet people, get involved in school group projects. When i was your age i thought it would be better being alone, and no need for some people bothering me. But that was very negative, it never helped. Only recently, i discovered instead of putting myself in a jail, its better to be out of it. Socialize, have experiences, you have to know how to treat people, and you decide how to be treated.
I always feel sorry for hungry people in some places in Africa and wish i could end hunger one day. All i can do for now, is trying to be good. Do what you want, socialize, get involved in activities, or u can visit old people, or in hospitals.
So do you cook? God bless you.Could anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
Perhaps you should seek counseling from someone at your church or a social worker or there are others and of course your parents
you need immediate help
i can't tell if you're depressed or just really hard on yourself but you need help
stop looking at people's bios and surround yourself with people that will support you no matter what
Believe me that although life is short, it's long enough so you will overcome that phase, start seeing things in a different, happier point of view and relax and enjoy much more.
Be a good person but try not to judge yourself too much. You only need to judge yourself if or when you do questionable acts, not by who you are. You'll get used to who you are
Don't think too much about that anyway. Live your life, plan your future and give it time
Also, turn off your TV once and a while and get out of the house, and try to have social interaction, because without social interaction, it's normal to feel sad or depressed.
Good luck!
I'm really sorry that you feel this way.
You should really put yourself out there, and try to make friends. If you make friends with genuinely good people, you will be so much happier. Don't get caught up with bad influencers and rule-breakers. You should think more highly of yourself, take care of your own needs.
You're craving the company of good friends, so you need to go and find them! Go to a youth centre maybe, or talk to people at your school. (but you said you haven't had any contact with your peers for years, so I wasn't sure if you go to school?)
See your doctor and I don't think it would be a bad idea to see a psycologist.
EDIT: I'm not sure how to get around the insufficient funds issue. Maybe go to or ring the doctor's surgery and tell them about your situation. Perhaps they can assist.
I'm sorry for the way you feel. Tell your parents/carers what's going on.
you need some change ,do you have a pet ? get one or a fish or bird , rearrange your room , put a lot of bright colors in your room, did you know if you look at the color yellow for 15 seconds it will put you in a better mood. hell paint your room yellow or a bright color with parents permission,go for walks during the day and and drink and eat less sugar it will make you fill better, do you know they have a free big brother big sister program they will come take you out for free once a week , check into it google it i'm sure your parents won't mind talk to them it is free and the big brothers and sisters are screened so they are not creepy, watch different stuff on t.v. you need change to help you, you are in a same old same old routine, so, get out of it , is it getting warm weather where you are , i think you need to start a small garden,start With an egg carton or something and get a dollar pack of seeds grow them in your window seal carry them out during the day when the sun is out and bring them in at night some green beans or peas are real easy to grow or squash , ..or get some zucchini 's seeds and they are real easy to grow and you can see how big of one you can grow they can get huge, google them .they are good if you slice them real thin and put some flour , salt and pepper and fry them , you should go out tommarow and start shoveling you a garden spot , you can make one for less then 5 bucks,, so dig all the dirt and shovel it up and turn it over and get out them extra grass and stuff,, get it ready and start some seeds inside, for your green beans and peas get a few sticks and some old kite string or rope and tie it from stick to stick so the plants can grow up and vine on them,im sure your parents won't mind but ask ahead of time, if you have no yard then get you a tomatoe plant in a 5 gallon bucket, if you have a window with sun comming in you may even want a house plant for your room it will help you fell better, i got one of them venus fly traps for 5 bucks at wallmart and i made a dome for it to keep it hot with a 2 litter soda bottle, so like i said you need some change,you could also start drawing or painting or find a good book to read , don't listen to country music it will depress you don't listen to rap or rock cause it may get you to wond up so try like pop music for a while,... try to watch movies that are comedys and some funny shows for now.keep your room clean, clean room will make you fell better,take baths instead of showers you will fell more relaxed. don't drink tea or soda in the evenings it will keep you up, get a hair cut or style it another way. like i said you need change,take my word on this i am 40, change your food around a bit put musterd on a sandwich in stead of ketchup,well i'm going to bed now so good luck lot's of love............and by the way if you don't respect yourself who will ? so , take care of you,you should always come first,,,,,,,, do you think those kids like to be on t.v and set in a hot studio under all them hot lights for 12 hours a day ? and even when they are sick or sad they still have to work, i'm sure they wish they had a more normal life like yours,,,, so, i love you , and you need some change, dear,,,,,,,,,
Well, I have been in your shoes before. The best thing you can do is talk to someone close to you about it, such as your parents. If not them, then the school counselor, you'll get a good feeling once you talk to them about it, and start getting help.
There are many factors which might have propelled you into the situation you are currently suffering from, Taylor. A psychologist would have to determine and examine most (if not all) of them before he or she can assess your problem.
But I am not saying that you do need to see a psychologist. You are young, and people of your age naturally have volatile mindsets that strive to attain balance.
Think. What do you think went wrong? Do you think it was your upbringing (through your parents or family)? Was it your friends or the environment you were set to grow? Do you want to release some hidden feelings? Do you feel that you want to run from something? Are you somewhat jealous of something? Or was it something else only you might know?
Search for answers within, and do not hesitate to talk them out and free yourself of the burden of keeping all the pain for yourself. You can decrease or even get rid of your obsessions if you keep on trying new things and set yourself to accomplish a goal. You can write blogs, befriend people who are similar to you, etc. Or you may just live your life as you see fit and wait for this stage to pass. I doubt you will be fixated to this stage for a long time, anyway. It shall probably pass as you get older.
But I'm afraid that the advice I am giving you is generic. The best advice you can get would come from people who know you inside-out or from a good, friendly professional who has thoroughly examined you and your background.
Remember. You are still young, very young. You will grow strong, one day.
I wish you all the best.
My best guy friend (for years) is being a little ';friendly'; over texting with me. we r n2 each other.. advice?
Ok, this may sound weird.. but its a good thing no body knows me on this site. but anyways I have a best friend who is a guy. we been best friends for 3 years, we tell each other everything and we hang out alot. well, at the first of our friendship it wasn't much just knowing eachother we didnt talk much outside of school events and myspace. then after a year is when we really became best friends. we went to eachothers house alot before his mom got promotted and my grandmother so ya know we arent allow to have the oppiste sex whenh nobody is there (adult wise). then we talked some over the phone maybe 2 hours a week and spent alot of time passing notes and stuff at school.
then last year he called four or five times a week, coming over to my place when ever sad and stuff made sure i was ok.
then this summer after me and a guy broke up i was with for a loong time (like a year) he wwould call me everynight from like 7pm and wouldn't let me get off till 6am. we never got bored. Now its worse since school started.
he has limited texting like 2,000 send and receieve so like one week out of the month he cant text or call. but he is constantly texting me or calling or whatever, which is fine with me. idc he's my best friend.
but he has been acting strange since school started. he said he was joking, but he does it ALOT.. asking if i would send ';pictures'; and saying we should both lose our virginity to each other cause we are best friends and would be better that way cause we trust each other. then saying since my bf left for the army, that we should do it. and we joke around alot. and he gets jelous everytime i get a bf. but he says he's just playing around. when ppl ask if we are dating he tells them yes. then he got some ppl to believe we actually done it, he additted to it. he's always trying to get me to break up, but i can tell he cares and doesn't want me to get hurt to.
if a guy touches me he gets the weirdest look of anger on his face. i think he likes me. idk. i kinda like him. but with the sex and crap idk. confused on my feelings. we are both attracted to each other...but idk what his goal he just started it this year. he says should have sex when he gets his new car and stuff... that it'll be ok. then he says he won't force anything pics nothing, but that he would have sex anytime with me, and if i wanted to send a picture go right ahead. then later like next day... when i confront him like wanting to know wtf he goes I'm just kidding he does it alot.
idk...i'm confused. its weird he's saying we are dating when we arent too. he knows we arent. =\ and all our friends thinks we are g2 end up together.
advice or what you think about this?My best guy friend (for years) is being a little ';friendly'; over texting with me. we r n2 each other.. advice?
sounds to me like he likes you. you should really watch for him being aggressive toward your guy friends, if he is then be even more careful if you do get with him because he could end up abusive toward you. it could end up as an abusive relationship. he cares for you so keep him around. if you like him be careful but go for it.
then last year he called four or five times a week, coming over to my place when ever sad and stuff made sure i was ok.
then this summer after me and a guy broke up i was with for a loong time (like a year) he wwould call me everynight from like 7pm and wouldn't let me get off till 6am. we never got bored. Now its worse since school started.
he has limited texting like 2,000 send and receieve so like one week out of the month he cant text or call. but he is constantly texting me or calling or whatever, which is fine with me. idc he's my best friend.
but he has been acting strange since school started. he said he was joking, but he does it ALOT.. asking if i would send ';pictures'; and saying we should both lose our virginity to each other cause we are best friends and would be better that way cause we trust each other. then saying since my bf left for the army, that we should do it. and we joke around alot. and he gets jelous everytime i get a bf. but he says he's just playing around. when ppl ask if we are dating he tells them yes. then he got some ppl to believe we actually done it, he additted to it. he's always trying to get me to break up, but i can tell he cares and doesn't want me to get hurt to.
if a guy touches me he gets the weirdest look of anger on his face. i think he likes me. idk. i kinda like him. but with the sex and crap idk. confused on my feelings. we are both attracted to each other...but idk what his goal he just started it this year. he says should have sex when he gets his new car and stuff... that it'll be ok. then he says he won't force anything pics nothing, but that he would have sex anytime with me, and if i wanted to send a picture go right ahead. then later like next day... when i confront him like wanting to know wtf he goes I'm just kidding he does it alot.
idk...i'm confused. its weird he's saying we are dating when we arent too. he knows we arent. =\ and all our friends thinks we are g2 end up together.
advice or what you think about this?My best guy friend (for years) is being a little ';friendly'; over texting with me. we r n2 each other.. advice?
sounds to me like he likes you. you should really watch for him being aggressive toward your guy friends, if he is then be even more careful if you do get with him because he could end up abusive toward you. it could end up as an abusive relationship. he cares for you so keep him around. if you like him be careful but go for it.
Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
There's a guy that I was in touch with several months ago %26amp; we planned on meeting for coffee to talk about travel plans,but he had to leave abruptly for the country he's originally from and didn't return for 6 months.We never got together because he had a lot to prepare for with going away for a long time etc.Now it's 6 months later and he has returned.I contacted him to ask if he would be interested in doing business w/ a friend of mine.He said he'd ';love to'; and gave me his phone number.We spoke on the phone and he was very friendly,told me a lot about what's been happening in his life, asked me how I was and so on.I got the feeling that he might have wanted me to talk more about myself,so I did a bit,but then the conversation focused back on the business matter.I didn't want to overdo it.An hour after the call,I emailed him some info that he asked me to send %26amp; added that ';it was lovely finally speaking to him'; %26amp; that I ';looked forward to meeting him';.How might he interpret that?Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
That you are a friendly person.. and it makes sense to say that as you had spoken on the phone,... if he is interested he will let you know and ask you out.. then you should accept to get to know him better only then can you form a real idea about each other.. after having had time to spend a meal together or have a coffee together.. if he wants that he will call you back.. or email you as he got your email address so just wait.. I would see it as friendly how you reacted but if he is interested he will get back to you and invite you at least for a coffee and then you both have a chance to get to know more about each other and see if there is potential for ''more''Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
its hard to tell based on conversations where you can't see the other person. when you meet up take notice to his body language. If he faces his body toward you, makes direct eye contact, leans towards you when walking or just generally seems like his interested in more than casual encounters, take the bait and go for it (that is, if you do want to date him).
That you are friendly and considerate. Let him worry about how you feel about him if you are interested in getting to know him better for the purposes of dating.
It just sounds friendly to me. If you are interested, you'd need more than that. Wait until you meet him, you'll know if you click then.
That you like him a lot and potentially more than friends
That you are a friendly person.. and it makes sense to say that as you had spoken on the phone,... if he is interested he will let you know and ask you out.. then you should accept to get to know him better only then can you form a real idea about each other.. after having had time to spend a meal together or have a coffee together.. if he wants that he will call you back.. or email you as he got your email address so just wait.. I would see it as friendly how you reacted but if he is interested he will get back to you and invite you at least for a coffee and then you both have a chance to get to know more about each other and see if there is potential for ''more''Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
its hard to tell based on conversations where you can't see the other person. when you meet up take notice to his body language. If he faces his body toward you, makes direct eye contact, leans towards you when walking or just generally seems like his interested in more than casual encounters, take the bait and go for it (that is, if you do want to date him).
That you are friendly and considerate. Let him worry about how you feel about him if you are interested in getting to know him better for the purposes of dating.
It just sounds friendly to me. If you are interested, you'd need more than that. Wait until you meet him, you'll know if you click then.
That you like him a lot and potentially more than friends
Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
Dont do it at all! You could ruin your friendship, and your friends marraige!Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
there are plenty of single people in the world but it seems like we always want what we cant or shouldnt have ---------dont even go there it wont be worth itWant to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
FORGETABOUTIT! Friendship is with MANY people.
Marriage is a love between 2 people......
AND you are NOTone of those 2 people.
she might be very friendly to u bc she wants to sleep with u, then again maybe she is just a friendly person..who knows, maybe u should hit on her and see what happens yet if u do that then what kind of friend r u really being? is it really worth loosing ur friend ova
Please do not even go there. You are playing with a nuclear explosion.
It is adultery, and therefore wrong. Do you feel the teachings of the Bible have any validity?
Just because she is friendly. Does not mean, she inviting you to bed with her. Think with the head on your shoulders, not down there.
She sounds like a s lut if she's coming on to you and she's married.
there are plenty of single people in the world but it seems like we always want what we cant or shouldnt have ---------dont even go there it wont be worth itWant to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
FORGETABOUTIT! Friendship is with MANY people.
Marriage is a love between 2 people......
AND you are NOTone of those 2 people.
she might be very friendly to u bc she wants to sleep with u, then again maybe she is just a friendly person..who knows, maybe u should hit on her and see what happens yet if u do that then what kind of friend r u really being? is it really worth loosing ur friend ova
Please do not even go there. You are playing with a nuclear explosion.
It is adultery, and therefore wrong. Do you feel the teachings of the Bible have any validity?
Just because she is friendly. Does not mean, she inviting you to bed with her. Think with the head on your shoulders, not down there.
She sounds like a s lut if she's coming on to you and she's married.
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