Thursday, August 19, 2010

Is it jealous or friendly advices???

I am inlove with this guy who is supportive in all ways and makes me feel happy all the times. We both varsity students and this guy loved me before I even had a child with my ex. My problem is we both coming from disadvantaged families and luckily I have a bursary that pays for my fees and buys me food, so sometimes I use to buy him stuff such as food to help him out when he does not have. So my friends tend to think that I am stupid and that he is the only one responsible for buying me stuff instead of me buying him. They tend to always judje him and this is not the matter of me being stupid but trying to show that I care as he also does that if I don' have money. So I don understand my friends' responses to this. Can some one tell whether it is jealousy or just friendly advices?Is it jealous or friendly advices???
You and your guy are there for each in the time of need. He is not taking advantage of you because he helps you out too. He knows how to give not just take. Your friends are jealous don't listen to them.Is it jealous or friendly advices???
I think it could be a little of both. Your friends wont want you to be taken advantage of and to be honest he is a grown man he should be providing for himself. You get that bursery to support you and your child not him. Once in a while is ok but all the time is not, he should buy you things in return once in a while as well. Your friends could also be slightly jealous that you are in a caring relationship and they are not but most of all they will more than likely have your best interests at heart.x.
hey my name is josh im 19 and i think the world needs more of u kind of girls ur the reason he is still alive and u need to tell ur friends its ur life not theres or get new friends there is no such thing as loving too much i would love to be ur friend and one day he will repay u maybe not with money but with love and u will be very happy. keep up the good work and dont listen to ur friends they are jelous ur not suplying them wit money and food all the time. ps. your a really nice chick and you are going to be fine every ting will work out.
jealousy! that guy did good for you and in return u just wanted to do good things for him also. u love him and your friend should not care about what your doing for ur guy! your friend cant give the love,happiness, and the generous acts of the guy for you so dont let your friend puzzled you of what you are doing!
some of your friends may be jealous. but about buying him stuff make sure your baby is first. that could be their concern. if they are always judging him without reason you might want to have a real serious talk on how its your life.
jealousy
I guess it's both.
this is pure jealousy!!! i think but maybe they dont see the good you get out of him. either way they need to mind thier business! if you feel you and he support each other then so be it. becasue even if he isnt you would have to make the choice to do something about it no one can tell you what to do to make you happy!





so many people in this world dont like to see others happy! misery loves company! do your friends have men to worry about thats worth anything? probably not!





im in my 30's and just learning you cant trust anybody these days!
It's friendly advice. Your friends are just looking out for you. They don't want to see you get used. A man needs to be able to get on his own feet. Both of you are in the same situation so how are you helping him when he can't help you? If you want to help him so much, you should help to find him a job. Give a man a fish and he eats for a day.....

(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
I think he's just being nice....(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
HELL YEAH





hes more than


interested he likes you .you need to see that. bye bye beautful i dont know any of my friends that say it when there just friend i think he might marrie you





i quote he told me his futre plans





ur in those plans

Can anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?

Me and my boyfriend are planning to go to orlando. from october 24 to the 26. Basically two nights.Preferably close to universal studios/horror nights? So we're planning to take our doggy Doby. She's a small dog. About 13 poundsCan anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
There are quite a few of them.





Comfort Inn North


(407) 629-4000





830 Lee Rd, Orlando, FL





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Motel 6


(407) 647-1444





5300 Adanson St, Orlando, FL





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Howard Johnson





(407) 351-2900





6603 International Dr, Orlando, FL





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Days Inn


(407) 351-3800





5827 Caravan Ct, Orlando, FL





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Here are pet friendly hotels/motels in the Orlando area, too.





http://www.1clickpethotels.com/Florida/F鈥?/a>





Hotels with K have fully equipped stovetop kitchens





Baymont Inn %26amp; Suites-South Orlando none 50 lb max


Best Western Orlando-West $5 per day dogs only


Comfort Inn-UniversaCan anyone advice/tell me of any pet friendly, nice and affordable hotels in Orlando, florida?? ?
Search here for hotels and I believe you can find out if they accept pets as well:





http://www.hotelscombined.com?a_aid=781b鈥?/a>
we have always stayed at a redroof inn they are good about letting your pets stay there

(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
this is some possibilities


1) he likes you or


2)he love you or


3) he is putting you as backup or


4)he is trying with other girls but he cant forget you.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
How old is he?

Friendly advices plz?

my boyfriend always wants me to come over his place after work and prefers spending time ';just me'; alone and without my daughter (even overnyt)... always tells me to stop-by / visit him... (40mins) but why cnt be come over to me??? i try to see him as much as i can... after work, weekends, and going there for a visit along with my daughter, but to tell me ';let just spend alone and sleep over. but he only sees me once every 2 weeks. so twice in a month.. he says he is too busy / sleepy / or work comes up... is he just using me for his comfort %26amp; needs?Friendly advices plz?
can't you see that he doesnt want anything to do with your daughter nor your life. he just wants you to fulfill his physical needs.


for the love of your daughter, find someone who doesnn't only love you but adores your daughter as well....


good luck....Friendly advices plz?
yes i think he is
Think you answered your own question - in the last line !


If you are looking for a genuine, long term relationship, it obviously has to be with someone who can love and accept your daughter - this guy wants her out of the way !


Tell him your daughter is more important to you than his sexual needs, and move on ; you, and ESPECIALLY your daughter, deserve better !
Well...i think you have to re-consider whether you really love him, weight between him and your daughter, at the same time does he love you? does he ever do something showing he care about you and your daughter or plan for you future? or he just want you to satisfy him in whatever sense...THINK!
yeah i think soo.. he's just using you. think he's a user person.. oops dont angry with me, am just telling of my comments.

Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?

My friend and i want to introduce her dog who goes up to about your waist to my sisters puppy who is a shih tzu. he is really friendly but i dont know if my sisters dog is. i would really like some advice because i really want the puppy to socialize and i want to see a really big dog play with a little dog *teehee*Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
here is some information on how to properly do dog introductions. good luck.


http://www.ddfl.org/behavior/dog-intros.鈥?/a>


http://www.animalbehaviorassociates.com/鈥?/a>Advice for someone who is new at introducing a puppy who has only seen one dog to a big friendly dog?
take it slowly and get them together on a leash and if they don't do good together pull them back and try again another time. if they do do good well ........................good luck

Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?

Right now, if I am in the pasture, and I stand still, they will slowly walk up to me, and sniff me, but if I try to walk to them, or reach out to pet them, they walk away.


Any ideas on how to get them to let me walk up to them and pet them?Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
Oboy. donkeys. Love donkeys. They're the equine equivilant of cats. If they want to do something, they will, if they don't , well, they won't.





Patience is a virtue, and it this case the only thing that works.





Take treats with you. Stand still and talk to them. They will see somebody's getting treats and come. Make sure there's treats and scratches in all the right places when they come to you.





After a week, stand a little closer. Reward whoever comes first. Next week, little closer. They're testing you just as you are deciding what to do with them, too.





Give them time. They'll figure you out and find out you only want good things. Then they'll follow you everywhere.Need advice on donkeys,. How can I get them to be friendlier?
talk to them softly dont try totouch them then either sit on the fence or the grass and ignore them take this slowly and they will come round also a treat now and then works wonders
Donkyes are very dangerous,be careful around them.


They kill allot of people yearly.

I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';

breeds and the most popular breeds happen to also possess traits I know I cannot handle:


1)Goldens/Labs are AWESOME, but require way, way more exercise than I am able to give. 2)Powerful, larger dogs tend to be extremely good with kids but do require, from what I've read, experienced, confident owners who can harness their strength and smarts and turn out a well-trained, happy dog. I am NOT a dominant personality type and I will not be able to show enough dominance to properly train such a dog. I need a happy-go-lucky dog that is happily submissive %26amp; will GLADLY accept other dogs/ppl visiting. My kids are quite gentle with dogs (grew up around grandma's maltese%26amp;chihuahua) and they are NOT AT ALL physically rambunctious. But our house is noisy-very high ceilings+3 kids+tv's..etc. My mildy-autistic son flaps his hands-A LOT. Might all this drive a sensitive breed crazy? Finally, I am a stay-at-home-mom, so I'll always be w/our dog. Thanks so much for any advice.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
You must check into getting a shitzu. They are terriffic. Happy go lucky,..gental,..snorts,...snores,...ver鈥?affectionate and loves to play games. very energetic but will tire themselves out by running in circles. They are just awesome. I love mine,...his name is fuzzbug.I would like opinions/advice on choosing a dog breed. I have been researching for ';kid friendly/tolerant';
cocker spaniels are the perfect dog they are so loving and also are good with kids they are loyal and do not aquire a lot of attention when you think of cocker spaniel you think of lady with lots of hair my dogs do not have lots of hair and are full blood cockers i highly recommend them for you they are also very smart and are very patient
choose a pomeranian. lovely dogs. i have one of my own. they seem a little perky when the noise level's too high though, so i dont know ... because you said your house his noisey... i guess it depends how noisey it is. if its constantly noisey i guess it can get used to it, but if its just sudden things, that might frighten it
Female huskies aren't too big, but tend to be dominant dogs so you might not like that. Beagles are very friendly but are very active. I think a golden retreiver would be great for you. Perhaps a cocker spaniel? Here, try this site, it might help you find a good match.


http://www.selectsmart.com/DOG/
hello,





A schnauzer is the perfect dog they come in 3 sizes and 3 colours i have a salt and pepper mini!


I think that the schnauzer is a dog that matches your description. They are about $1000-$1500 each. They are a very friendly dog and LOVE kids.


Hope i helped!
If your kids are used to your grandmother's small dogs, then why not check into some of the toy breeds?





Any breed can be tolerant of children if properly trained and socialized around them. I know of someone who had Chinese Cresteds with her autistic children.
We have Yorkies and English Bulldogs...........both are awesome with our four year old daughter!
As both a breeder and lover of dogs, my personal choice is the Miniature Pincher or Min-Pin for short.


While a small breed they have a lot of energy and when raised with children and other pets they are very adaptive. They can be a bit clingy to one person but they are very social dogs as well.


I also recommend them for people with allergies as they seem to be one of the few breeds that do not cause a lot of allergy suffering.


I know a lady that has a child with severe autism that says the Min-Pin she bought from me is a blessing in that the dog is very careful and watchful around her daughter and also very vocal when the daughter is about to get in trouble.


On the whole I feel that Min-Pins are the best small dog going and perhaps the best all around dog to have.


I also should mention that the American Mutt makes a good dog for just about anybody.


Please feel free to contact me if you have any other questions.
Pit bulls [ the nanny dogs ] are great family dogs.


I've been at a dog rescue with a majority of them


being Pit bulls and not once out of the 3 years


has a Pit bull bit me. Especially when you get


them as puppies and train them since then they


will become very obedient, loving dogs. Also,


their loyalty to its owner is outstanding, this breed


of dog is known for always obeying. But you always


hear about the bad stories on the new and how they


attack people, but they dont bother telling you the REAL


reason why the dog attacked [usually because of territory


or them being harrassed]. I personally love the breed and


many other people do too. So give them a chance if you'd


really want a dog to be fun, caring, and trust worthy.
If you don't mind a small breed, Havanese are VERY good with kids, tolerant, outgoing and, for a toy breed, sturdy!


They don't need lots of excersize, a romp with the kids or a toy thrown up and down the hallway or a leisurely walk is just fine with them. They are not snappy or clingy, they are really wonderfull little dogs, and cute too!


Mine are thriving in a houseful of teenagers, Afghan hounds, loud husbands, drum sets and cats that are bigger than they are! If you would like more info you can contact me from my profile.
A Labrador is still your best bet.


You will have to be the ';dominant'; pack leader no matter what dog you get. They need training, supervision and exercise.


You will need to teach your dog basic obedience or have someone teach him for you. Maybe you could hire a dog walker if you can't do more than 1 hour a day?





We have 2 Labs. From the time they were pups we played with them inside and did potty breaks outside with about 30 minutes of actual playtime. They are 95 and 69 lbs each. Both are well behaved around other people and animals. They do like trying to jump up and lick if you don't stop them. Otherwise, they are perfectly happy. You've got kids and your home all the time so you can still play with him inside. Not all dogs have to have outside play. For outside play with a Lab I'd suggest a water hose, frisbee, ball or small pool. That could be your hour of playtime.
STAY AWAY FROM SMALL TOY BREEDS THEY ARE MORE AGGRESSIVE! GO TO PETFINDER.COM and HeLp A DoG In NeEd!Go to petfinder.com and search there! type in the breed age and type of animal you want and where you live! SAVE A DOG IN NEED! ITS EASY WITH PETFINDER! THEY FIND A DOG IN NEED CLOSEST TO WHERE YOU LIVE! THEY GIVE DETAILS AND MANY TIMES HAVE SOGS THAT ARE GREAT WITH KIDS! if you continue to buy dogs from breeders then they will force the momma and daddy dogs to make more and more and more puppies until the mother dog can only have one at a time and then what happens to the mother? Well lets see she either gets dumped off on the side of a road left to starve orrr they will put her up for adoption,,,,,I HATE DOG BREEDERS!
While I don't know of any particular dog that would be good around children with autism, growing up we had a English Springer Spaniel who was so mild mannered and loving that she would even let the cats curl up and sleep with her. Never once did I ever witness her being aggressive except in once incident where I was about 9 or so a man claiming to be the ';meter reader'; came up to me in the front yard and she went into a growling and teeth barring frenzy. It is our familys belief that she sensed something and would have fought tooth and nail to protect me.. I would recommend her breed to anyone with kids... however they do tend to have longer hair and need to be groomed. Good Luck!
have you ever thought about an English or an Olde English bulldog. Great with kids, not hyper, couch potatoes, low exercise. these guys don't bounce off the wall they don't like jogging, they love kids and all pets. They are very eager to please. And they will keep you laughing with their comical faces and personalities. Research them a little you I think you will love what you see.
I would think hard about a mutt :)


We have what we believe to be a chow/lab mix (aka mutt) and he is the best natured dog you could ever ask for! A two year old could drag him around the house all day by his tail and he would be in heaven just to have a buddy lol


Here is an example of the things he will tolerate (he is the brown one on the bottom lol)


http://www.sugarloot.com/entry/100769686鈥?/a>


(when we took him to the vet as a puppy the vet told me he is ';Brown Dog'; lol)

(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
YES, he's definitely interested. Sound's nice. Needs some encouragement from you. Only worrying thing is that he doesn't seem to be his own master. Men who tell mummy what she wants to hear, or even worse, do what mummy wants are usually a waste of time.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
not interested I would say, guys make it very clear if they are
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  • I need some friendly advice.?

    I've been working on a story, just with some extra time i've had.


    This is what i have so far:





    The wind blew softly against the trees, which were full of dew and drops of rain from the night.


    On top of the great canopy sat a large monkey, with dark brown fur and white markings on his mane.


    His name was Marfoon.


    He was the alpha male of the clan of monkeys that lived in this forest.


    He grunted quietly to himself as he inspected his territory, for any off signs.


    Everything was clear so far.


    He climbed off of the branch on which he sat upon and made his way to the forest floor where he met up with the two, wide-awake, tumbly twins.


    Meko and Zeke.


    After a quick grunt and a show of teeth did the twins stop their foolish play and let Marfoon make his way through.


    He soon stopped before a large boulder and bent down, lapping up some water from a small puddle.





    Its about a clan of macaque monkeys.


    And if you think i could do some revising, i would love to get some opinion.


    Thanks very much.





    I need some friendly advice.?
    I think it is an interesting idea for a story - now stop asking this group for advice and find an online writing group where you can get some real advice on writing. My experience is that there are a lot of haters on YA! who like nothing better than to insult earnest efforts with nasty critiques.








    Start here:


    http://www.thewriterssite.com/direct_pag鈥?/a>I need some friendly advice.?
    So far I think it's a really great story but maybe the monkey shouldn't be large maybe it should be small or medium sized because smaller it is the cuter but other ten that I think it's great.

    Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly

    it's pretty scary to go there.


    but she is starring at me all the time ( u know that kind of a look ). plus i think she is unsatisfied in her marriage. my friend is a kind of a geek guy playing with PSP in his 40's.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
    with friends like you who needs enemies. Friends don't do that . if you value your friendship, stay away from her. I f she is unsatisfied in her marriage, that is her problem. Stay out of it.Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
    Don't do it.
    Ok I got it you are a pig right?


    He isnt your friend or you wouldnt even let it cross your mind. If she is unhappy she will leave him on her own she dosent need you to complicate things. Apparently she saw something in him that attracted her and keeps her there. Maybe you have something hanging out of your nose everytime you go over there, but even if she is stareing at you that dosent give you the right to move in on his wife. Who cares if he is a geek, that is his wife, get your own.
    if you love your wife, you will not betray her by sleeping with her friend...
    If the women is married then there is a code. The code is she is off limits. I dont care if she looks at you with a lovers strare or not she is not yours to have. She made a commitent to her husband and she needs to stick by it.
    Jerk. Selfish, stupid jerk.


    And you call yourself a friend.


    Please!
    You and this 'geeky guy' obviously are not very good friends, or you would not even be asking such a stupid question. Sleeping with someone elses wife is called ADULTERY. Not a good thing. Don't even think about it.
    Then one special programme crew will make a film about your secret relationships and will show it on TV. Would you like the consequences of such a programme about your love affairs?
    I think your ';friend'; doesnt have a 'friend';... and maybe his friend is just making fantasies about his ';friends'; wife wich makes you the '; friend'; looks like a complete ';jerkoff';..... get a life and find your own wife home wrecker.. with friends like you who needs enemies.... you should be ashame of your self....oh oh shame is a felling that jerkoff just dont feel...... get away from your poor friend happy home... is not your business what is the status of their sex life.. idiot.
    you need to read what all these people wrote .one thing she would stupid for doing it and another i would pitty you if he cought you.that,s not a friend dummy
    You know what, those are terrible and hurtful thoughts. Not according to God or Society, but according to right versus wrong in basic human morality. Leave your friend's wife alone because whether she's making eyes at you or not, you'd be doing your friend a great injustice. Find your own woman.
    2 words for you OFF LIMITS and 2 pts for me
    Everyone on here is judging that you are wrong. Maybe you are but in a similar situation, half of the people here would do the ';wrong'; thing. You know the saying about glass houses. By the way, my wife left with ';my best friend'; and i was hurt at first but i realized he did me a favor. She obviously wasn't happy with me and if it were not for him we could still be going on with our life and be just as miserable as we were before. Also i should say that after a little while i realized this and now we are all friends.
    dont be an asshole i had a friend do that to me in highschool id still like to rip his head off and **** down his windpipe

    (GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

    He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


    There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


    When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


    Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


    On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


    He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


    He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    May be he just likes to boink on-line. Ever thought of that? There are a lot of weirdos out there. Be careful!(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    maybe he IS interested. but u should give all this some time instead of thinking sooooooooo much about him.

    Could anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?

    I think I might have a mild - to - serious problem. It's really hard to type all this and make it available to the public, so please be as kind as you can :). I'm a 14 year old boy. I've got sort of an obsession, and it's not bad as it might come across to you guys at first, but like these kids on TV and stuff between ages (generally) 6-12 I kind of like want to meet or something, I don't know maybe I just wish I had it as good as them when I was younger or what but I look up their biography and history, just stuff like that. But I do it constantly and it gets me soooooo depressed, like I just....imagine the worst feeling you've ever had, you might have not even had it yet but I don't think of anything bad, I just wish I could like meet them in person or something but it's not as simple as just a want, it's taking over me. It gets me depressed and like a very unpleasant and lonely feeling, like I'm all alone and I don't have any friends or anything, in fact I haven't been around anyone my age in a few years (very shocking I know). And every time I try to talk to anyone and the subject can be anything, I just feel so bad about myself, I really look down on myself and I feel like nobody likes me ( I try so hard not to, I even put myself way out there and I just feel worse and worse, it's been going on for a long time). It seems to come in stages, like every couple months it comes and goes. And I've never fit in, I'm 14 and my favorite channel is either USA or Food Network. I can't stand immaturity or stupidity, I can't stand war games at all, I put myself out of the way for anyone even if they are the scum of the earth, I'll still put them before myself and I think people take advantage of it. I'm very hard working. (sorry it kinda split into two questions and/or problems) but please type what you think about it, but really try to imagine yourself in my shoes, what would you type then?...thanksCould anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
    Well, i don't see you weird or anything. What my eyes and heart telling me is that you're a good person no more. You don't need a doctor, it's just you need to join some activities, meet people, get involved in school group projects. When i was your age i thought it would be better being alone, and no need for some people bothering me. But that was very negative, it never helped. Only recently, i discovered instead of putting myself in a jail, its better to be out of it. Socialize, have experiences, you have to know how to treat people, and you decide how to be treated.





    I always feel sorry for hungry people in some places in Africa and wish i could end hunger one day. All i can do for now, is trying to be good. Do what you want, socialize, get involved in activities, or u can visit old people, or in hospitals.


    So do you cook? God bless you.Could anyone friendly out there please take 5 minutest of your time and give honest opinion/advice?
    Perhaps you should seek counseling from someone at your church or a social worker or there are others and of course your parents
    you need immediate help


    i can't tell if you're depressed or just really hard on yourself but you need help


    stop looking at people's bios and surround yourself with people that will support you no matter what
    Believe me that although life is short, it's long enough so you will overcome that phase, start seeing things in a different, happier point of view and relax and enjoy much more.





    Be a good person but try not to judge yourself too much. You only need to judge yourself if or when you do questionable acts, not by who you are. You'll get used to who you are





    Don't think too much about that anyway. Live your life, plan your future and give it time





    Also, turn off your TV once and a while and get out of the house, and try to have social interaction, because without social interaction, it's normal to feel sad or depressed.





    Good luck!
    I'm really sorry that you feel this way.


    You should really put yourself out there, and try to make friends. If you make friends with genuinely good people, you will be so much happier. Don't get caught up with bad influencers and rule-breakers. You should think more highly of yourself, take care of your own needs.


    You're craving the company of good friends, so you need to go and find them! Go to a youth centre maybe, or talk to people at your school. (but you said you haven't had any contact with your peers for years, so I wasn't sure if you go to school?)


    See your doctor and I don't think it would be a bad idea to see a psycologist.


    EDIT: I'm not sure how to get around the insufficient funds issue. Maybe go to or ring the doctor's surgery and tell them about your situation. Perhaps they can assist.


    I'm sorry for the way you feel. Tell your parents/carers what's going on.
    you need some change ,do you have a pet ? get one or a fish or bird , rearrange your room , put a lot of bright colors in your room, did you know if you look at the color yellow for 15 seconds it will put you in a better mood. hell paint your room yellow or a bright color with parents permission,go for walks during the day and and drink and eat less sugar it will make you fill better, do you know they have a free big brother big sister program they will come take you out for free once a week , check into it google it i'm sure your parents won't mind talk to them it is free and the big brothers and sisters are screened so they are not creepy, watch different stuff on t.v. you need change to help you, you are in a same old same old routine, so, get out of it , is it getting warm weather where you are , i think you need to start a small garden,start With an egg carton or something and get a dollar pack of seeds grow them in your window seal carry them out during the day when the sun is out and bring them in at night some green beans or peas are real easy to grow or squash , ..or get some zucchini 's seeds and they are real easy to grow and you can see how big of one you can grow they can get huge, google them .they are good if you slice them real thin and put some flour , salt and pepper and fry them , you should go out tommarow and start shoveling you a garden spot , you can make one for less then 5 bucks,, so dig all the dirt and shovel it up and turn it over and get out them extra grass and stuff,, get it ready and start some seeds inside, for your green beans and peas get a few sticks and some old kite string or rope and tie it from stick to stick so the plants can grow up and vine on them,im sure your parents won't mind but ask ahead of time, if you have no yard then get you a tomatoe plant in a 5 gallon bucket, if you have a window with sun comming in you may even want a house plant for your room it will help you fell better, i got one of them venus fly traps for 5 bucks at wallmart and i made a dome for it to keep it hot with a 2 litter soda bottle, so like i said you need some change,you could also start drawing or painting or find a good book to read , don't listen to country music it will depress you don't listen to rap or rock cause it may get you to wond up so try like pop music for a while,... try to watch movies that are comedys and some funny shows for now.keep your room clean, clean room will make you fell better,take baths instead of showers you will fell more relaxed. don't drink tea or soda in the evenings it will keep you up, get a hair cut or style it another way. like i said you need change,take my word on this i am 40, change your food around a bit put musterd on a sandwich in stead of ketchup,well i'm going to bed now so good luck lot's of love............and by the way if you don't respect yourself who will ? so , take care of you,you should always come first,,,,,,,, do you think those kids like to be on t.v and set in a hot studio under all them hot lights for 12 hours a day ? and even when they are sick or sad they still have to work, i'm sure they wish they had a more normal life like yours,,,, so, i love you , and you need some change, dear,,,,,,,,,
    Well, I have been in your shoes before. The best thing you can do is talk to someone close to you about it, such as your parents. If not them, then the school counselor, you'll get a good feeling once you talk to them about it, and start getting help.
    There are many factors which might have propelled you into the situation you are currently suffering from, Taylor. A psychologist would have to determine and examine most (if not all) of them before he or she can assess your problem.





    But I am not saying that you do need to see a psychologist. You are young, and people of your age naturally have volatile mindsets that strive to attain balance.





    Think. What do you think went wrong? Do you think it was your upbringing (through your parents or family)? Was it your friends or the environment you were set to grow? Do you want to release some hidden feelings? Do you feel that you want to run from something? Are you somewhat jealous of something? Or was it something else only you might know?





    Search for answers within, and do not hesitate to talk them out and free yourself of the burden of keeping all the pain for yourself. You can decrease or even get rid of your obsessions if you keep on trying new things and set yourself to accomplish a goal. You can write blogs, befriend people who are similar to you, etc. Or you may just live your life as you see fit and wait for this stage to pass. I doubt you will be fixated to this stage for a long time, anyway. It shall probably pass as you get older.





    But I'm afraid that the advice I am giving you is generic. The best advice you can get would come from people who know you inside-out or from a good, friendly professional who has thoroughly examined you and your background.





    Remember. You are still young, very young. You will grow strong, one day.





    I wish you all the best.
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  • My best guy friend (for years) is being a little ';friendly'; over texting with me. we r n2 each other.. advice?

    Ok, this may sound weird.. but its a good thing no body knows me on this site. but anyways I have a best friend who is a guy. we been best friends for 3 years, we tell each other everything and we hang out alot. well, at the first of our friendship it wasn't much just knowing eachother we didnt talk much outside of school events and myspace. then after a year is when we really became best friends. we went to eachothers house alot before his mom got promotted and my grandmother so ya know we arent allow to have the oppiste sex whenh nobody is there (adult wise). then we talked some over the phone maybe 2 hours a week and spent alot of time passing notes and stuff at school.


    then last year he called four or five times a week, coming over to my place when ever sad and stuff made sure i was ok.


    then this summer after me and a guy broke up i was with for a loong time (like a year) he wwould call me everynight from like 7pm and wouldn't let me get off till 6am. we never got bored. Now its worse since school started.





    he has limited texting like 2,000 send and receieve so like one week out of the month he cant text or call. but he is constantly texting me or calling or whatever, which is fine with me. idc he's my best friend.





    but he has been acting strange since school started. he said he was joking, but he does it ALOT.. asking if i would send ';pictures'; and saying we should both lose our virginity to each other cause we are best friends and would be better that way cause we trust each other. then saying since my bf left for the army, that we should do it. and we joke around alot. and he gets jelous everytime i get a bf. but he says he's just playing around. when ppl ask if we are dating he tells them yes. then he got some ppl to believe we actually done it, he additted to it. he's always trying to get me to break up, but i can tell he cares and doesn't want me to get hurt to.





    if a guy touches me he gets the weirdest look of anger on his face. i think he likes me. idk. i kinda like him. but with the sex and crap idk. confused on my feelings. we are both attracted to each other...but idk what his goal he just started it this year. he says should have sex when he gets his new car and stuff... that it'll be ok. then he says he won't force anything pics nothing, but that he would have sex anytime with me, and if i wanted to send a picture go right ahead. then later like next day... when i confront him like wanting to know wtf he goes I'm just kidding he does it alot.





    idk...i'm confused. its weird he's saying we are dating when we arent too. he knows we arent. =\ and all our friends thinks we are g2 end up together.





    advice or what you think about this?My best guy friend (for years) is being a little ';friendly'; over texting with me. we r n2 each other.. advice?
    sounds to me like he likes you. you should really watch for him being aggressive toward your guy friends, if he is then be even more careful if you do get with him because he could end up abusive toward you. it could end up as an abusive relationship. he cares for you so keep him around. if you like him be careful but go for it.

    Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?

    There's a guy that I was in touch with several months ago %26amp; we planned on meeting for coffee to talk about travel plans,but he had to leave abruptly for the country he's originally from and didn't return for 6 months.We never got together because he had a lot to prepare for with going away for a long time etc.Now it's 6 months later and he has returned.I contacted him to ask if he would be interested in doing business w/ a friend of mine.He said he'd ';love to'; and gave me his phone number.We spoke on the phone and he was very friendly,told me a lot about what's been happening in his life, asked me how I was and so on.I got the feeling that he might have wanted me to talk more about myself,so I did a bit,but then the conversation focused back on the business matter.I didn't want to overdo it.An hour after the call,I emailed him some info that he asked me to send %26amp; added that ';it was lovely finally speaking to him'; %26amp; that I ';looked forward to meeting him';.How might he interpret that?Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
    That you are a friendly person.. and it makes sense to say that as you had spoken on the phone,... if he is interested he will let you know and ask you out.. then you should accept to get to know him better only then can you form a real idea about each other.. after having had time to spend a meal together or have a coffee together.. if he wants that he will call you back.. or email you as he got your email address so just wait.. I would see it as friendly how you reacted but if he is interested he will get back to you and invite you at least for a coffee and then you both have a chance to get to know more about each other and see if there is potential for ''more''Please offer sincere advice: Does it seem like I'm interested or just being friendly?
    its hard to tell based on conversations where you can't see the other person. when you meet up take notice to his body language. If he faces his body toward you, makes direct eye contact, leans towards you when walking or just generally seems like his interested in more than casual encounters, take the bait and go for it (that is, if you do want to date him).
    That you are friendly and considerate. Let him worry about how you feel about him if you are interested in getting to know him better for the purposes of dating.
    It just sounds friendly to me. If you are interested, you'd need more than that. Wait until you meet him, you'll know if you click then.
    That you like him a lot and potentially more than friends

    Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly

    Dont do it at all! You could ruin your friendship, and your friends marraige!Want to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
    there are plenty of single people in the world but it seems like we always want what we cant or shouldnt have ---------dont even go there it wont be worth itWant to sleep with my friend's wife.any advice how to check if she doesn't mind?she seems to be very friendly
    FORGETABOUTIT! Friendship is with MANY people.


    Marriage is a love between 2 people......


    AND you are NOTone of those 2 people.
    she might be very friendly to u bc she wants to sleep with u, then again maybe she is just a friendly person..who knows, maybe u should hit on her and see what happens yet if u do that then what kind of friend r u really being? is it really worth loosing ur friend ova
    Please do not even go there. You are playing with a nuclear explosion.
    It is adultery, and therefore wrong. Do you feel the teachings of the Bible have any validity?
    Just because she is friendly. Does not mean, she inviting you to bed with her. Think with the head on your shoulders, not down there.
    She sounds like a s lut if she's coming on to you and she's married.

    Wednesday, July 28, 2010

    Keylogger freeware....Any advice or experience on which one is good (i.e user friendly and undetectable)?

    I'd like to find out if my computer is being accessed when I'm away.


    My friend would also like to see what her young girl is doing; she's concerned about online predators.


    I found one that looks promising called BlazingTools Perfect Keylogger Lite 1.15 ...any thoughts?


    ThanksKeylogger freeware....Any advice or experience on which one is good (i.e user friendly and undetectable)?
    It's always said that free one is not safe,However it's the truth .You can try some affordable keyloggers.These may help you http://www.keylogger-mac.com


    http://www.parental-controls-software.ne鈥?/a>


    http://www.keylogger4u.com





    Good luck~Keylogger freeware....Any advice or experience on which one is good (i.e user friendly and undetectable)?
    I am using a very smart one, called AllSpyMonitor.It really helped me a lot.Now I can keep informed every activities at the computer.I recommend it to you and hope it can help you.


    http://www.allspymonitor.com/index.html


    Good luck!
    most free keyloggers are with virus, better not take the risk to damage ur pc. here is a smart one i have been using for my kid:


    http://www.monitoring-softwares.com/pare鈥?/a>
    Try Refog.

    (GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

    He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


    There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


    When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


    Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


    On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


    He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


    He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    Clearly he is in love with you. Ask him out if you like him.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    I think hes interested in you ask him some questions so you know
    hes interested in you i think

    Please offer your sincere advice:Does he think I'm interested or just being friendly?

    There's a guy that I was in touch with several months ago %26amp; we planned on meeting for coffee to talk about travel plans,but he had to leave abruptly for the country he's originally from and didn't return for 6 months.We never got together because he had a lot to prepare for with going away for a long time etc.Now it's 6 months later and he has returned.I contacted him to ask if he would be interested in doing business w/ a friend of mine.He said he'd ';love to'; and gave me his phone number.We spoke on the phone and he was very friendly,told me a lot about what's been happening in his life, asked me how I was and so on.I got the feeling that he might have wanted me to talk more about myself,so I did a bit,but then the conversation focused back on the business matter.I didn't want to overdo it.An hour after the call,I emailed him some info that he asked me to send %26amp; added that ';it was lovely finally speaking to him'; %26amp; that I ';looked forward to meeting him';.How might he interpret that?Please offer your sincere advice:Does he think I'm interested or just being friendly?
    He may interpret that being just a kindly gesture, but it's certainly not nothing.


    He may think that your interested, and if he hopes that you are then he will pick that up as you being interested.


    But if he doesn't, he may think that your just being kindly.Please offer your sincere advice:Does he think I'm interested or just being friendly?
    What's a guy away from home supposed to think? It sounds to me like you're a business contact. Nothing more, nothing less. You're very safe for now. If things change, you can straighten him out with a few choice words.
    he will think that you fancy him ,so its up to him now

    LGBT friendly hospitals/doctors, in Chicago? Or just some plain old advice.?

    Hello All. I am a M to F transsexual. I have been dealing with some GI problems, for awhile. Thankfully, I am extremely passable. By the same token, because of this, when I walk into an emergency room, seeking help; they ask me a series of non-applicable questions (menstrual, are you pregnant?). I am left paralyzed with fear, when it comes to telling them the truth. I KNOW I should tell them, because by not doing so, I am omitting medical history. I am just so afraid of being discriminated against. LOL. You should see me, when they ask me, about doing a pelvic examination. I have to vehemently tell them, my ';vaginal'; area is fine. LOL. But really, all jokes aside; I want the best care, and I know I am slighting myself; I'm just scared to tell them. Does anyone know of any LGBT friendly places, or anyone have any advice for me? Any is welcome.





    Thanks.LGBT friendly hospitals/doctors, in Chicago? Or just some plain old advice.?
    LOL. Most doctors and nurses that have been practicing for a while have seen many of our kind. I would not be too worried about it. They are doctors and in my experience they are the most open to trannys. The nurse that I spoke with yesterday about giving blood knew right off the bat when he saw the t blocker medication I am on. He was very nice to me and each of the doctors that I have seen have been the same. There are directories online that have glbt friendly doctor but really I think that most doctors will do. Out of curiosity though what does GI mean?LGBT friendly hospitals/doctors, in Chicago? Or just some plain old advice.?
    Do a search for ';transgender + chicago'; to find your local community. You can ask them who they would recommend or avoid. It's also a good way to find a supportive group. It sounds like you could use some friends. Good luck.

    Need advice from Lesbians: If you had a co-worker that you were friendly with and then discovered she had ...?

    a crush on you, or feelings for you...and you also discovered that she is married (soon to divorce) and if that person told you about their feelings for you, would you assume at first that she was confused and didn't really know if her feelings for you were real because she had been with men only before her feelings for you ? She had never been with another female but wanted to see what these feelings were all about towards you...would you feel like she was just using you as a toy to play around and experiment with, or would you choose to believe that she may really, really like you and be interested in YOU as an individual ?Need advice from Lesbians: If you had a co-worker that you were friendly with and then discovered she had ...?
    I know you asked for lesbians .. I'm not quite a lesbian but I do enjoy being with a women sexually ( I guess most would say BI .. but whatever you want to call it is fine with me )


    I would be very cautious with this woman .. she seems like she really digs you .. but she's also going through a major change in her life .. most people can only handle one at a time .. divorced %26amp; experimenting with her feelings at the same time - that sounds scary to me !





    Maybe become friends .. go out a few times .. see what her expectations of the relationship will be .. get closer and really get to know her. You might find out she truly is falling in love with a woman and not just using you .. there's only one way to find out !Need advice from Lesbians: If you had a co-worker that you were friendly with and then discovered she had ...?
    I am a woman trying to figure out my feelings and if I am gay or just going thru a stage. It sounds to me like she is very confused and though she may really like you as a person she may be using you to experiment with knowing that you like woman. I would just be upfront with her and ask her and then go from there....Good Luck!!
    Ask if she dose and if she dose try it maybe fun to you

    Pet bird prices and advice on which is most affectionate and family friendly? 10 points best answer =]?

    Ive looked at a range of caged birds, but cant find prices of them on the internet! Could anyone give me guideline prices on what i should expect to pay for:


    Brotogeris Parakeets


    Cockatiels


    Conures


    Grass parakeets


    Lovebirds


    Parrotlets


    Id preferrably like to buy one of these birds from a young age, as they are apparently easier to tame and are more affectionate to the person that tamed them. Any ideas on any of the prices for any of these birds? Best places to buy them? Most affectionate/friendly birds? Any input much appreciated =]Pet bird prices and advice on which is most affectionate and family friendly? 10 points best answer =]?
    hi there!! the best way to buy birds is from a breeder as they are alot cheaper we sell are cockatiels at 拢15 and lovebirds about 拢15-拢25 depends on the breed of the bird!! good luck!! petshops are a rip off!!Pet bird prices and advice on which is most affectionate and family friendly? 10 points best answer =]?
    I've never heard of the brotogeris or grass ones, but..


    Cockatiels - I've seen them for between 拢20 and 拢40.


    Conures, depending on the type, I've seen for an average of about 拢80-90 for non-hand-reared, but mine was hand-reared and I paid 拢450 for him.


    Lovebirds I've only seen for sale in pairs, for between 拢50 and 拢90.


    I don't know where everyone's getting these ridiculous prices for parrotlets. I'm in pet shops a lot, and the most I've ever seen one for is 拢50 (which is a rip-off as it is). If you go to a breeder they're about 拢10-20.





    If you're definitely wanting a friendly, very tame bird, do look into getting a hand-reared baby. They cost more, but you get so much more out of them so it's worth it. My conure is so cuddly and loving - he follows me everywhere and will snuggle up on my shoulder and fall asleep, lay on his back in my hand and have his belly tickled, eat food from your mouth, etc. He thinks he's a person, and will accept treats and attention from absolutely anyone.


    I've had cockatiels as well who were quite tame and would come up and steal food from your plate, but I have to say the conure is the best for friendliness I've ever had. Kakarikis are also lovely birds, but mine wasn't hand-reared and definitely wouldn't be held even though I had him for a really long time and he knew I wasn't gonna hurt him.


    Really wouldn't recommend lovebirds. You have to keep them in pairs, and any bird that isn't on its own and has a birdy companion, won't be all that good with humans. They probably won't be vicious or scared, but birds only need humans when they haven't got another bird with them. If you give your bird a mirror or a companion, they won't be anywhere near as good as a lone bird for handling and interaction because they'll be too interested in the other bird. Also if you want to teach them to talk, they won't, they'll just chatter away in bird language all the time.
    You can go to www.birdbreeders.com to get prices on each of the birds you are interested in buying. The price of Conures depends on what kind you want to buy. You can usually get Lovebirds for under $100.00, Parrotlets, depending on the mutation, are usually $100-$200. Privatley own pet stores often time have baby birds that are being handfed and are sold once they are weaned. You would have to check in your area and get to know the owners. I shop at the same pet store (privately owned) all the time so the owner is familiar with me. If I want a specific bird she will look for one when she goes to bird shows, she also usually tries to get babies or very young birds. Birdbreeders.com also has birds for sale from different breeders. There is also a link on theis site that lists the states, you can choose yours to see if there are any breeders in your area. Breeders usually let you come visit your baby while it is being handfed that way you can work on bonding and taming. This would be the best way to go, but if you cannot find a local breeder, then try the privately owned pet store. As a last resort, you could buy from a breeder off the internet. I bought my BF Amazon from Tango's Flock listed on birdbreeders.com. Conures can be affectionate birds, not sure about the Parrotlet though. In general, Lovebirds are not affectionate birds. I have never had any expereience with Grass Parakeets or Brotogeris Parakeets.
    I would premote the cockatiel. They are cheap, live long, beautiful and many bird enthusiasts call them the ';perfect pet bird'; because they are easily tamed, affectionate, and fun little guys. Not to mention pretty cheap. They come in all mutations but the cheapest is the Normal cockatiel that usually ranges from 50-80$. Most expensive is the albino for 150-250$. Plus they dont need pairs or large cages, they can live up to 25-30 years!





    BROTOS: beautiful but expensive and hard to find 300$ +


    COCKATIELS: yes, yes and yes


    CONURES: good but more work as they are loud, messy and harder to care for. Prices usually in the 250$ +


    GRASS PARAKEETS: very colourful, but usually not good pets good display birds though. Many types 200$-1000$


    LOVEBIRDS: good guys but one down affect is must be in pairs, may breed and if one mate dies the other dies of grief. $50-100$


    PARROTLETS: fun and small, cute and great personality. recommended 75$-500$ depending on mutation











    dont go to a petstore, go to a breeder.
    i used to work in a bird pet store and these are the price ranges we have


    fancy parakeets: 100-150 dollars, parakeets can be good pets if they are well socialized but only last around 15 yrs


    cockatiels: 99-150 depending how fancy they are, these birds are very friendly and have great personalities if you buy them young


    conures: 300-500, these are my favorite birds, they are so funny to watch and have such silly personalities, personal fav is the sun conure, they are very loud though


    lovebirds: 100-200, they are not very good pets if you want someone to cuddle with, they require extensive socialization everyday to maintain tameness


    parrotlets: 100-200, they are much like regular parakeets, require more socialization

    I Need Some Advice Does He Like Me Or just Being Friendly?

    Is This Meant To Be?? He Holds The Door open For Me To Walk In Wait For Me Sometimes Even We Have The same SCHEDULE! Even The Same HANDWRITING?? And One Time I Went To McDonald's With My Friend And Unexpectedly He Had His Shirt OFF From Wet And Wild When He Came To Mcdonald's OMG I LOOKED AWAY AND SAY wow THAT WAS OCCUARD I Need Some Advice Does He Like Me Or just Being Friendly?
    ever thought that he is a gentleman, but sounds like he likes you too, you should hint aroundI Need Some Advice Does He Like Me Or just Being Friendly?
    sounds like he likes you could you check my profile to answer my question i cant put a link I'm on my iPod i really need an opinion


    its a matter of love or death
    What does his shirt have to do with anything liking u?





    And how would we know??





    try talkin to him.
    i do bleave he likes you. or hes a perv
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  • Very friendly with a female friend..could it be more? Advice please?

    Say you have a guy friend and you know there's this attraction between you. Lets say that you have to move to another state shortly after you meet but you guys keep in touch over chat...not a lot but once every couple of weeks and he flirts telling you he's falling for you. Say you catch up with each other when you're back for work and actually stay with him one night, even get close like kissing but not sex. You don't talk about your feelings as you have to go back next day but he contacts you a while later and you get on..but don't discuss the kiss. I've heard that if a guy keeps in contact with a girl he has kisses that he is interested in her as more than a friend? Guys opinions really appreciated here please. (its a difficult situation due to heavy work loads and long distance).Very friendly with a female friend..could it be more? Advice please?
    well have recently been in a relationship where me n a guy got closer as mates den we ended up getting closer in a kissing way! it was good at first but then the second time came and i ddin't like it. the best thing about this though was that i was honest with him and told him how i felt about the situation, he ended up agreeing with me and now we are just friends, just be honest with each other, that is my advice! just because you become initimate it doesn't mean you should become less open than you was before!

    She just being friendly or is she interested?? Looking for PLAYER advice!! VER LONG WILL GIVE POINTS!?

    1. For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


    on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


    but doesnt seem like a ';get out of my face'; look or anything.





    2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, in a joking manner, but i dont


    overdo it..





    3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


    She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


    scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


    buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


    she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.She just being friendly or is she interested?? Looking for PLAYER advice!! VER LONG WILL GIVE POINTS!?
    dam as long as question but here i go..aight well she likes u i can almost sure..she does n by the way she wants u to feel here legs a gud sign u got a chance of hittin it..( im just sayin)....since her bf's goin to korea(wat now were in war againist Korea?)aight well u got the better of it keep workin at it with her..u lookin gud rite now u don't need much advice ..but if u do yea n fo real korean girls r freaks i use date this korean n black girl..dam she was an animal fo real...n she wa sfine 2..mayne ..they gud fo real...She just being friendly or is she interested?? Looking for PLAYER advice!! VER LONG WILL GIVE POINTS!?
    sounds like she likes you, as much as you like her.


    take her out and enjoy yourselves and see what happens.


    if you two are old enogh or at least if it is ok with your parents.
    LOL korean





    here we go ima gonna write a novel





    ima korean....


    ive dated korean nunas, korean nurses, random korean girls i met at clubs, my korean professor, ive even dated my ex girlfriends best friend, and her friend at the same time.





    all these things I am not proud of because i learned many things the hard way, and ive had my heart broken. by the girl i loved.





    let me tell ya this man....





    korean girls are the hottest, sexyest, naughtiest, most fun beautiful women in the world.... BUT





    they are also the most foxest sly girls man.


    yeah hell, U may think that your got this girl on a fcukin leash, but from what ima read.... shes got you on her pinky man. no offence





    the prettier the slyer in my opinion. bet shes the hottest little thing you ever seen and touched. dun let it go sooo fast...





    a girl whos met ya for a week.... and shes already touching you.. (when girls touch, its an indication to other women that YOU are taken by HER) OMg i can Just seee her doing that man.... accidently brushing by you, her hair like blowing in your face.... LOLZ





    have you Ever met her BF? hes mite be the nicest thingy alive. proli unlucky thing too, hes going to army.... and you proli dun have to, yeah she KNows the inevitable that once in army two whole years.. she wants out.





    shes could be using you. using you to get out, using you coz you treat her like a princess. shes proli gonna date you guys both, and slowly stop sending letters to her bf. shiftly little thing





    dunno man.... its only been a short period of time.





    BUT on the other hand...


    i could be Totally wrong... maybe this girl is alrite, maybe she aint the vixen ima imagining from what you wrote.





    mayb shes scared, scared that she cant push you away strongly, after all getting a job in korea is reali reali hard, and ur bosses son. %26gt;.%26lt; but.... i doubt it.





    i recon shes got a little sumthing for ya. if your looking for fun, and you dun reali reali like her, yeah go ahead man...





    but NEVER EVER EVER listen to what a girl says about her BF. girls say alot of crap about their men, when they in distress....





    they just gotta let it out some place... half of it usuali aient even true. yeah her talking bout her BF... thats what her girls friends are for. shes a real piece of work using that on you.





    Oh and one more thing... if a guy was to pull my woman while me going tripping... id get ma bro to fcuk him without a second thought, so find out who the guy is b4 you jump in the love garden
    I don't think she likes you like that. I think that she is just friendly. I think that she needs to stop sending you mixed messages. Why don't you just ask her if she likes you, then you will know. I flirt with guys and talk to them how she talks to you all the time and when I go home, they don't even cross my mind.
    i think she is interested but at the same time i believe she is confused.you should either give it more time and the answers your looking for may be revealed,or talk to her about how you feel,keep in mind you have only known her for a short time.
    imo


    she's looking for a 3rd to party,


    3some








    @ topic maker





    who cares what my questions are about?





    look at what i have for best answers and answers....








    btw being a ';pimp'; means u dont ask for relationship help online. which i obviously dont.
    its total no no what do you think if she acts kool then shes yours if she has a bf then how come she would like you


    if you have that much guts just tell her that you are in love with her just bare the reaction


    risk is life bro

    (GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

    He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


    There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


    When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


    Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


    On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


    He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


    He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    He's interested in you...of course he will tell his mother that you are too young (don't believe that).(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    just ask him--that the only solution
    m sure he likes you but may be he thinks its not the right age or so or may ne hiding from mom...but thats for sure that he likes you..
    he likes you but he isn't ready for a relationship
    He seems interested, why would a guy waste his time talking to a girl overseas when he can meet one face to face if he wasnt interested.

    Need advice on dating the flirty/confident/overly friendly kinda player type guy?

    well the guy i like is kinda like the flirtatious type lol, and he is my best friend, he always says that all his other friends r sluts and he likes me cuz im not. :) so anyways, i dont want any speeches on why i shouldnt date him, cuz i will anyways (hes really great once u get to know him and hes fun) he already asked me out and i already said i liked him and he likes me back, so done deal...


    so what i need to know is like what do these types of guys like out of a relationship? do they normally make the first move? just give me some tips on how to date this type of guy. thanksNeed advice on dating the flirty/confident/overly friendly kinda player type guy?
    Play a little 'hard to get' with him. Guys like this need a constant challenge or they are easily bored and move on to the next one.


    To keep him interested, don't be too easy; always keep him guessing ..... so he'll keep trying harder to hang on to you :)
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  • (GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

    He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


    There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


    When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


    Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


    On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


    He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


    He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    If he sounds nervous when talking to you (not onthe phone) then he has the hots for you. But be careful if you push too hard you might find out he wasn't and you would lose a good friend.

    (GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?

    He is studying overseas. He calls me frequently when he is busy or stressed up (such as exam period). He would also give advices and encouragement whenever he knows i need it. However shortly after we start talking, he would say that he wants to resume his work or go to sleep.


    There are times when he would teach Biology before my exams. He makes sure he teaches me till i understand though he has to be late for classes because of that.


    When we skype, he would usually stare at me and look away and smile shyly when i notice it.


    Sometimes he would use some endearment and also say ';bye bye beautiful'; when he's about to sign off.


    On the other hand, he told his mum that he's not interested in anyone of my age because we are too young for him.


    He said he can't wait to go out with me when he comes back.


    He also talked to me about our graduation and told me his plans for his future.(GUYS, PLEASE ADVICE!) Is he INTERESTED or just being FRIENDLY?
    I think he is interested but, he is shy so he deosn't really know what to do. You make him nervous also the studing overseas he may think to be a problem because he has to be away from you, and he doesn't see to want to.


    Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, then get to know him so that he doesn't feel so nervous around you.

    Can anybody give me few friendly advices to clam my mind?

    I am still 25 yrs old but after my baby I look like a 35 yr old women. I had been put on a lot and now totally depressed with trying and nothing gaining. I had to gave up my job too behalf of my baby and now having major financial problems too. I can鈥檛 explain exactly my situation but I am really disappointed all abt. Sometimes feels to give up everything but I can understand my family needs me.. pls pls I need to calm my mindCan anybody give me few friendly advices to clam my mind?
    First things first, congrat yourself for sacraficing yourself for your family that takes a lot of courage. Second, we all put on weight and think we all look older, but this is psychological. I know, being that my daughter is six and I am still chubby, but then I think about it and there are a lot worse things I can be. It will take a while to get used to everything but I promise things will fall in place. You are taking on a large plate so it is no wonder you feel a bit overwhelmed. In the end this will all work out, you may need to tighten your belt straps finacially but you soon will become aclimated to the decrease in finances. I am sure if you get a good nights rest (which with young babies is near impossible) but if you could manage get one nights sleep, go get a haircut or take the time in the day when the baby is napping to take a hot bath and pamper yourself. You will feel a world of differance. Just think to yourself, that your baby and family is going to be that much closer to you because you are basically doing it for them and not yourself. Hopefully this insight will be good medicine to calm your mind.








    Single mom who wishes she had the opportunity to stay home...=_Can anybody give me few friendly advices to clam my mind?
    Develop a personal relationship with God through His Son, Jesus. Then talk to God about everything. He loves you and cares. He just wants you to come to Him and ask for the help that you need. God bless you as you learn to know Jesus and His peace that passes all understanding. Philippians 4:7.





    My prayer for you: Father, I lift up Clang and her small child. I ask you to give her the strength to raise this child and live her life for you. Lord, please cure her depression and financial problems. Be with her as the perfect parent that you are. In your Son, Jesus' precious name I ask these things. Amen.
    Think peaceful thoughts.Calm yourself.Read poetry
    Hi there





    It sounds like you are going through a tough time - you need some support and TLC! Do you have anyone around you that is a source of continous support? Mom? Partner? Friend? If not, I sugesst you find a mom's group so you can get yourself some support and someone to listen to you. Trust me, I went through a very dark time after my son was born and the last thing I wanted to do was talk to people/strangers. But knowing there are other people who feel the same way as you do can really help. I'm sending you some links you can look at to find yourself some help. I hope you feel better and take good care of yourself. Smile! You are a beautiful person and your baby needs you to be strong.

    I need advice. My wife is has been friendly with some guy @ work. She never mentions him but I found out that?

    they are always text messaging each other. I let it go because it didn't seem like a big deal. Well a few days ago my wife asked if she could go to dinner with a g/f. Welll it turns out this guy was also there. She is hiding her friendship with him and now it now I am starting to question why she is doing this. She cheated on me a long time ago before we were married. Her behavior really hasn't changed like when she did cheat on me. Should I worry?I need advice. My wife is has been friendly with some guy @ work. She never mentions him but I found out that?
    no ,unless your sure something is going on its probably innocent friendship,if something was going on the girlfriend wouldn't have been at the dinner......I need advice. My wife is has been friendly with some guy @ work. She never mentions him but I found out that?
    We have a rule in my place. If your going out with the ';guys'; or ';girls';. The other spouse shouldnt come, but if theres another gender there, you should be invited. And if she didnt know he was going to be there, she should of called and notified you. Because thats not going out with a girlfriend.





    If shes hiding the relationship something is up. And I would talk to her about it. You have a right to know whats going on. And you should tell her its making you uncomfortable (calmly). And see how she reacts, if she apologizes, and tells you she will try to be open. Then let it slide. But if she gets defensive. Then I would be more supscious. But best you can do is be honest to how your feeling, without making acusations. And to do it calmly.
    You should sit down and talk to your wife and let her know how you are feeling. Let her know that you are not accusing of her of anything but that it hurts that she is hiding this friendship with this guy. If there is really nothing going on between the 2 of them than she should have no problems telling you about the friendship and even letting you meet him. I would only worry if she tries to continue to hide the friendship.
    No, worry is not how to accomplish things in our lives. Take action!! She IS cheating, to whatever degree, and you are allowing yourself to be a victim. Take a stand, talk/write to her about this and set your boundaries. Learn that You matter and that certain behaviors from others are not to be tolerated. Sooner You get yourself straight on the life You desire, the sooner You will have the courage to handle this in the best way for yourself.........Blessings!!
    Yes WORRY ! There's unhappiness somewhere in the marriage, you or her has disconnected !! It happened to me buddy. Hurry and sit down with her, she's getting some attention and some understanding from someone else. You have got to figure out what that is and give to her or vice versa.
    yes, i would read the txt msgs if she didnt delete them if your suspcious... I would be very curious . They could just be friends, but instead of getting in her face about it.. snoop a lil so you dont sound jealous and if u see anything worth discussing mention it.. you coud just talk to her but she may just say nothing as the obvious answer.. anyway good luck.
    If she cheated before you have every right to worry! She brought that upon herself! Find out who he is , meet him, find out about everything! Do not let it get by this time! Bring it up at every moment! She cheated once, she will do it again!
    My advice you dont have to be jealous. Try to get to know the guy and find out the truth. sometimes it maybe not what you think. maybe they are just ';friends';
    I would ask to meet him. I would explain to her how I felt. If she seems reluctant to meeting him then I would worry.
    Worry...............





    Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater
    sounds to me like the fella at work is puttin in overtime between your wifes legs. i would def worry about this situation.
    There's no point in 'worrying'. Ask her. If her answer doesn't satisfy you, leave her.
    A couple means two not three, I would be worried. That's a little bit to much coziness for me! If it was a party like that why weren't you invited?
    i would be super upset if my fiancee had a secret relationship.
    Some husbands don't give a hoot ... that's when you realize don't give a hoot back!! MOVE ON!
    You are worried??
    I would be concerned, yes. =)
    Get real, you already know, one way or another.
    The bottom line here is that your wife and this guy should not be texting one another. She doesn't need a male friend because she has you for that. It appears that this man is giving your wife some attention and she is liking that. This man knows that your wife has a husband and should respect to back off but he isn't. I wouldn't trust this situation either and I definately wouldn't like it! Nothing may be happening yet but it looks like it could be building up to something because they are putting themselves into temptation if they keep it up. I would tell my wife that I am not comfortable with their quaint little friendship and would appreciate it if she would stop. If she argues with you about it then something is more important here than you and I wouldn't tollerate that. Would your wife be comfortable if you were doing this to her? Probably not.

    I need advice on making my cupboard diet friendly...?

    I am serious about losing weight and my husband is gone for 3 more months, so I figure now is a good time to totally toss out all the bad food in my cupboard and head out to buy healthy food to help me on my road to massive weight loss. I am looking for any advice on things I should get to refill my cupboards, maybe some tasty snack ideas would be nice, I tend to snack a lot when I am on a diet and I am trying to stay under a 1600 cal. diet.....





    I'd appreciate any help, advice anyone has! Thanks!I need advice on making my cupboard diet friendly...?



    Strip That Fat is a new weight loss program which is creating quite a buzz these days. The reasons for this are two fold:


    1. The creators of this diet launched a fearsome attack on other diets and claimed that most of them provide just a short burst of weight loss but fail to follow up on that for any length of time. This is why, they claim, so many people fail with their diets.


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    As this is a digital program which you download to your computer and it comes with a money back guarantee, you can claim a full refund for it the moment you're less than satisfied. No one in their right minds would create such a product if they believed their customers will not be happy with their results.


    One of the things which make this program work is the diet generating software. This is a software which allows you to create around 40,000 different menus combination which allows you 2 things:


    1. Include a lot of food items that you like.


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    Girl advice! Dropping hints or just being friendly?

    I've known her for a while, and though we live far away right now, I'm transferring colleges to one that's far closer. Since the last time I was able to visit about a month ago, our friendship has gotten a lot closer, and I'm pretty sure she's dropping hints but I'd definitely like some advice on the matter, cause I'm not used to this whole long range thing.





    10 mins after I left after hanging out with her, I got a text saying it was too bad we couldn't hang out longer.





    The next day I find a facebook post that says '(my name)!x3' (no idea what that means btw)





    Since then we've been texting or IM'ing each other at least once every 2 days, compared to once every week and a half, and it's being started both ways.





    She said I should definitely transfer cause she would visit me a ton, and offered to help me move in if I did so.





    She offered to talk to me after a rough weekend (long story)





    She also posted just yesterday that she loves my new facebook picture... in all capitals.





    On the flip side tho... it seems like unless she's the one who starts texting, I generally don't get responses longer than a sentence. Though, if she sends me one (for example, one was just Hey!!), I got about a paragraph in response to 'hey, how's it going?', just as one example. I'm just kinda thoroughly confused by all this... I like her a lot and would love to ask her out but I have no idea how to do so until I transfer in a month and a half.





    Also, if you are reading this, and you know who you are... please don't get too mad at me =PGirl advice! Dropping hints or just being friendly?
    ya shes droppin hints.


    answer mine


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    Hi, I'm looking for gay friendly PA area with animal care jobs, any advice? Not in any rush to move. Thanks!?

    by gay friendly, I mean gay and lesbian couples can walk hand in hand like nyc, and not be afraid of being murdered. and by gay friendly, I mean, being able to rent an apartment and be open about our relationship. Thankies! :-DHi, I'm looking for gay friendly PA area with animal care jobs, any advice? Not in any rush to move. Thanks!?
    i love lesbians, but only hot ones for porn, but what your asking is immoral to most people. I think you have mental problems, just because you think it is right does not make it right. if everyone turned gay. there would not be anymore people. thanks for sovling the problems.your really selfish. what causes a person to be messed up and not normal. why are you such a man hater, with out us men this world would still be flat. and you would have a long dress pleaseing menHi, I'm looking for gay friendly PA area with animal care jobs, any advice? Not in any rush to move. Thanks!?
    New Hope and Lahaska right next to each other is a nice gay friendly town. In Pennsylvania. Then you have Lambertville N.J. right across the river that is also friendly. The local newspapers have done stories on these towns. About their openness.
    Most of suburban Philadelphia is cool. One town that's very open mined and progressive is Phoenixville, about 25 miles due west of Philly just past King of Prussia and Valley Forge.





    One friend says check out Stroudsburg near the Delaware water gap not far from where Interstate 80 enters PA from NJ.
    It's already been said, but New Hope is fairly gay-friendly. I have several friends who have moved to Lambertville, NJ - right across the river from New Hope. And I know a bunch of out and open gay couples who live in/around Easton PA.





    Good luck where ever you end up!
    You will want to stay away from the greater Williamsport area. First there are no jobs, second they are not friendly to anyone there.





    There are places in the greater Philly and the greater Pittsburgh area that are great though. New Hope is one of those places.





    Unfortunately it has been my experience that most of Pa is fairly closed minded.





    Good luck!

    Tell me your advice, Is my fiance being over friendly? With?

    About three weeks ago, my fiance was on the internet. He was looking for a new Morgage Company to re-fiance his current Morgage Loan. Well he found and got a immediate reply from a office out of Seattle, Tacoma. Anyways he starts comunicating with a gal in the office. (no big deal). After a few days of communication between my fiance and the morgage lady. He starts speeking different of her, like she's some hot-chick, or in just a more interested manner than usual. Anyways I end up finding her cell phone number in his work truck, her name outlined over and over, then next I see her cell number on our home caller ID after work hours. She called our house at 9:00p,m,. In all the paper-work faxed between my fiance and the morgage galm doesn't have her cell number, only her office with extention, a 1-800 number and her fax number. Do you think I'm over reacting or is it normal for Moragage Company Representatives to be calling from there cell phone at night.Tell me your advice, Is my fiance being over friendly? With?
    possibly a bit too friendly. but she's in a different state than from you and your boyfriend are in. that part is not too clear to me. if she's in a different state i wouldn't worry about it.


    chinTell me your advice, Is my fiance being over friendly? With?
    ask lisa @ yahoo answers
    No that isn;t normal at all. Don;t question him because if he is doing something wrong it will only tell him to be careful. Wait and see what happens and at the end of the month check the phone bills. See when her number appears. If calls have become frequent simply call her and ask her how things are moving along with the status of your account and that you are indeed his wife calling.
    You can never be too careful. I do not think that it is appropriate to business after business hours. I do not think that you are over reacting. Your instinct is telling you that something is not right. Listen to it.
    Hmm. I think you should talk with him. You know him, so you should be able to know if he's uncomfortable with your questions. If he's uncomfortable, perhaps there is a problem. Don't jump to conclusions, but don't turn a blind eye. Be smart. Best luck.
    Well, you only on road to jealousy
    In my opinion he is looking for something more


    than re-finanzing. If you are serious about him


    then confront him now as you are involved with


    him; and if you see that this relationship with


    the other woman continues even though it may


    be distant, then you need to think about you and


    what is best for you.
    its good you found out now because married is all about trust and communication i am a guy and i would never do that to my fiance and if she did it to me i let her go i buy her a nice card with her new booty call phone # good luck
    I have never had a mtg persons number before- but I have never dealt w one online either- make sure it is legit- hopefully it is and the place exists- and does not have outrageous fees- is probably innocent and business- is your name on the loan- and will you be responsible also- when you are married the house will legally be yours too- take care-D
    I was in the mortgage business and yes, it is quite normal, especially when doing long distance business (u didn't say where you live in relation to Tacoma) but there are many time-sensitive crucial document requirements that sometimes pop up at the last minute due to underwriter guidelines...it's the mortgage broker's (salesperson!) job to do whatever it takes to make the sale, even if it's flirting...trust him or not?
    Your husband has caught feelings for the mortgage company customer service lady - and it sounds like it's mutual. This is a bad sign - he's probably thinking of having an affair with her, and, emotionally speaking, he's already started cheating on you. You need to talk to your man and ask him to cut it out!
    Coming from someone who has experience as a wholesale mortgage broker, most of the ones you deal with are lazy, shady, and will not work extra hours for you.





    So, you be suspicious if you want to, moreover, I recommend you just confront him and/or the broker. Careful though, having dealt with mortgage brokers, alot of them are weasels (there are some good ones, just not many).





    As for the cell phone thing, mortgage brokers are on the move and many use cell phones.





    The only thing I can think is maybe your husband really does not want to make his next payment at a high rate and his refi might drop his rate or he needs cashout soon. In which case, if the broker does see some profit in this, she might work extra hours. 9pm is a little strange though, unless there will be a rate lock the next day. Also, is your husband absent minded/looses appointments? That could be why he has her number outlined.





    Well, after reasoning this out, I would have to say go with your gut. My gut doesn't trust most mortgage brokers even that i work with them, so I would say be careful.